Why It's Better to be Single

[Travis_Touchdown]

this thread must tag @s-ghost

 

[Medicated Oil]

Rubbish video.

Cannot eat grapes, say grapes sour.

Single is sibeh lonely.

Find the right partner, one expert say it is happiness x 2, sadness ÷ 2.

At the end of the day, you still have to face loneliness even if you have a partner.
No guarantee that you have happiness.
No such thing as a right partner since people can change all the time.

 

[Travis_Touchdown]

with right person > single > with wrong person

it ish the easiest to stay single... hard to find the wrong person... hardest to find the right person...

 

[Sen Sen]

Needed money first

 

[charliebrown]

nao a day hao many people u see aorund u happily married more than 10 years?

 

[mummynew]

## Clear expectations, abundance mindset, and cutting losses

The creator recommends stating expectations clearly and early (e.g., timeline for children, division of housework, conflict rules), letting anyone who finds these unacceptable opt out quickly. Adopting an abundance mindset, you treat dating like interviewing multiple candidates, ask direct questions about goals and lifestyle, watch patterns instead of promises, and cut your losses promptly when the “data” shows deep incompatibility so both people are free to find better‑matched partners.

I had a chat with my son when he was in late 20s. He shared that many of his male friends, himself incl, subscribe to the above - to go through 'probation' period before deciding on one. Once if feel 'not right', then break it and look further.

Then my girl's friends more into the idea that once they decided on a man, then die die will be fixated on the man. Any rough edges then the couple needs to try to adjust for each other else it is not 'Love'.

Interesting to hear their differences.

 

[TopGun]

Rubbish video.

Cannot eat grapes, say grapes sour.

Single is sibeh lonely.

Find the right partner, one expert say it is happiness x 2, sadness ÷ 2.

Note the operative word. "Right".

What did the expert say if one married the "wrong" partner?

 

[enimen]

Why can't we be like hippies and make love, not war?

Just spread free love everywhere

 

[miko66]

At the end of the day, you still have to face loneliness even if you have a partner.
No guarantee that you have happiness.
No such thing as a right partner since people can change all the time.

Ya

I want to break free

 

[coyote]

Why can't we be like hippies and make love, not war?

Just spread free love everywhere

I think you are referring to sex. Because sex is not what bond a family together. Love is. Hippie's life isn't family centric either... They want yolo, sleeps at camper van at remote parks...

 

[daveteo88]

better to have someone

someone to share each other happiness with so that happiness can x2

when got anyone sadd got each other for accompany so that saddness divde by 2

Ideally that is what teenager say. In really there is no such thing in this world as happiness let alone happiness x 2. There is sadness but dun assume is sadness divide by 2.

 

[TopGun]

Better or not is ultimately subjective.

Some prefer single hood while others prefer companionship in the forms of a marriage. To each his own.

In SG, what is most important is to game the system, be it single hood or via a marriage.

PS. Single don't mean that the party don't necessarily have a partner. Just not via a marriage.

 

[s-ghost]

this thread must tag @s-ghost

the person who made the video confirm attached/married/divorce before

 

[enimen]

I think you are referring to sex. Because sex is not what bond a family together. Love is.

Sometimes love seeds sprout from intimacy and sex. It could go both ways.

 

[Medicated Oil]

Ya

I want to break free

It is your life.
Time is running out every single second.

 

[daveteo88]

The alimony you pay every month can piak piak. Ex wife still gv you piak piak or not? She take your money eat buffet

 

[articland05]

want to marry jiu marry
want to stay single jiu single

discuss so much for what

 

[helloicanseeu]

taking care of children is very tiring, u may get more lonely as u age though

 

[coyote]

Sometimes love seeds sprout from intimacy and sex. It could go both ways.

So, with that belief, have you found sex and love? The result speaks for itself.

 

[ramlee]

Why can't we be like hippies and make love, not war?

Just spread free love everywhere

You not scared of AIDS?