anyone regretted marry your wife?

4Dluckystrike · Dec 17, 2015

sg dream =migrate
sg nitemare=marriage

harbinger255 · Dec 17, 2015

4Dluckystrike said:
sg dream =migrate
sg nitemare=marriage

You seem to be very very against marriage/relationship in general..... Any bad experience to share for all the bros/sis here?

ngensys2000 · Dec 17, 2015

It's true that before marriage girls conceak their true colors.
Once she let her hair down, the controlling men, comparing with other gcps, princess mode all come out liao. End up the guy who thought he marri3d a girl find it is a demon instead.

harbinger255 · Dec 17, 2015

ngensys2000 said:
It's true that before marriage girls conceak their true colors.
Once she let her hair down, the controlling men, comparing with other gcps, princess mode all come out liao. End up the guy who thought he marri3d a girl find it is a demon instead.

Possible.... but just a small little other possibility.... those guys were just focusing on the wrong thing/s throughout the whole relationship leading up to marriage...... :s8:

panda_hippo · Dec 17, 2015

Very goot thread...keep the stories cumming in.

Medicated Oil · Dec 17, 2015

ngensys2000 said:
It's true that before marriage girls conceak their true colors.
Once she let her hair down, the controlling men, comparing with other gcps, princess mode all come out liao. End up the guy who thought he marri3d a girl find it is a demon instead.

If you date the gal long enough, you should know her pattern through your interaction, communication and quarrel with her.

The same applies to the guy in terms of the devil coming out.

The most important thing is to know the details of individual living habits and whether they match. Example like how to press the toothpaste, cleanliness of the house, toilet habits, personal hygiene. It is because the tolerance of cleanliness and messiness about the house is different for every one. Maybe none of you have any OCD issues.

koxinga · Dec 17, 2015

ngensys2000 said:
It's true that before marriage girls conceak their true colors.
Once she let her hair down, the controlling men, comparing with other gcps, princess mode all come out liao. End up the guy who thought he marri3d a girl find it is a demon instead.

This should be settled before marriage and besides, what's the point of hiding? It doesn't help either parties since divorce or separation not difficult to get now and anyone can walk out. The girl also lose out too in time and emotional investment.

If this happens, the real reason is probably because both sides have a misguided, fairy tale view of married life. People fart, have lousy hygiene habits in real life.

Ethan_ · Dec 17, 2015

harbinger255 said:
Possible.... but just a small little other possibility.... those guys were just focusing on the wrong thing/s throughout the whole relationship leading up to marriage......

Think most are too engross in superficial stuffs like looks and money etc, to notice how they really feel. Think one good tool is be sensitive to one's own feeling when doing things for the other party. Is it willingly, happy or unwillingly, grudgingly, etc.

Most tend to ignore or not notice their inner feelings when interacting with others. Too focus on outside, never notice inside. But think, often one's own feelings is a true gauge of people. Call it intuition or whatever. Its often how one take all the conscious and subconscious cues, etc, and sum it up in a general feeling of sort.

Jalesako · Dec 17, 2015

Can forward entire thread to MSF for studies

harbinger255 · Dec 17, 2015

Ethan_ said:
Think most are too engross in superficial stuffs like looks and money etc, to notice how they really feel. Think one good tool is be sensitive to one's own feeling when doing things for the other party. Is it willingly, happy or unwillingly, grudgingly, etc.

Most tend to ignore or not notice their inner feelings when interacting with others. Too focus on outside, never notice inside. But think, often one's own feelings is a true gauge of people. Call it intuition or whatever. Its often how one take all the conscious and subconscious cues, etc, and sum it up in a general feeling of sort.

Agreed.... That's the thing I wondering during all this talk about ppl changing soon after marriage....

Humans are adaptable but generally resistant to change... If one claims that their partner changed, then look for the causal factor. Marriage is the obvious but usually wrong answer - it's really a meaningless status/paper... Living together and getting to know all the little nuances is more likely to be it...

So if that's the case, who's fault was it to jump without looking deeper?? It's both parties btw, in case ppl start screaming white knight at me again.... Cohabiting seems like a good marriage trial in such cases but in SG context.... well.... not probable

gnoes85 · Dec 17, 2015

Those regretted, most married to sinkie?

adrianwang74 · Dec 17, 2015

If we start a legit "anyone regretted marrying your husband?"

i'm sure we get loads of similar responses... like he's changed, he snores, he always pak games, etc.

space_trooper · Dec 17, 2015

gnoes85 said:
Those regretted, most married to sinkie?

can't make a mountain out of a molehill. came across one with a foreign spouse. it gets even more complicated when the son is born.

Shdwfalcon · Dec 17, 2015

Ange1cry said:
It's complicated, I don't regret marrying my wife and also having a baby of our own now, but I regretted getting married. Marriage itself, is the problem.

Sent from a chao peasant, a small fry using GAGT

Its the clause and "subject to WC conditions" written on the bond that is the cause of the problem. Marriage is just a procedure.

Sent from a place where the sun don't shine without using GAGT

nijnail · Dec 17, 2015

EDMW got wife de meh. Not forever alone buis buis ah

daniel_83 · Dec 17, 2015

me no regrets

together for 7 years then marry

our lifestyle, preference and mindset quite similar

maybe because she was with me since she was 17
so kena influence by me

reno77 · Dec 17, 2015

nijnail said:
EDMW got wife de meh. Not forever alone buis buis ah

edmwers are all married men who thinks other edmwers are unmarried buibuis?

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Impz82 · Dec 17, 2015

SageWolf said:
Got hiam by gcp.

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Quite true. I dated a few times before getting married. Never dated a Singaporean woman, though I think they will hiam me most possibly because I bui bui, low earning, fugly and beh kan

zensushi · Dec 17, 2015

There are many congregating here, sniping needlessly with their remarks.

CeSaRiO · Dec 17, 2015

koxinga said:
This should be settled before marriage and besides, what's the point of hiding? It doesn't help either parties since divorce or separation not difficult to get now and anyone can walk out. The girl also lose out too in time and emotional investment.

If this happens, the real reason is probably because both sides have a misguided, fairy tale view of married life. People fart, have lousy hygiene habits in real life.

I guessed ultimately, its all about understanding each other and having the similar perspective towards marriage and the more goals.

Also, dont give in to peer pressure since this will run into some egos. :s13:

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