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veryhonestguy

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It been 2 years since I went to a cinema after my daughter is born . Any 1 of you just park your kid with parents or what so ever on a Sunday then go a hot date with wife ?
 

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It been 2 years since I went to a cinema after my daughter is born . Any 1 of you just park your kid with parents or what so ever on a Sunday then go a hot date with wife ?

When I was married with a kid, my mum helped me to take care every weekend and if I am not working I will be going out with my wife or to catch a movie. But with 2 kids now, my mum can’t take care of 2 through the weekends as she can only afford to take care of 1.. I can only go movie during the weekdays when my 2 kids are in childcare. But half a day still ok la my mum still can look after for me if I want to go catch a movie or something like that..
 

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Ar ok but my wife leave always not enough haha

When I was married with a kid, my mum helped me to take care every weekend and if I am not working I will be going out with my wife or to catch a movie. But with 2 kids now, my mum can’t take care of 2 through the weekends as she can only afford to take care of 1.. I can only go movie during the weekdays when my 2 kids are in childcare. But half a day still ok la my mum still can look after for me if I want to go catch a movie or something like that..
 

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Sat can put infant care till 2pm... can have morning breakfast date and a movie.

only did that twice in 18 months =S
 

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I used to babysit for the expatriate couples in my church way back in the 80s. Husband and wife will go on dates on Saturday evenings and leave their kids with me. I went over to their house. It supplemented my income as a poor kindergarten teacher.
 

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just treat it like as though the kid is absent. what's so tough about that?

source: father of two
 

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Things will get better soon! Before long, you will have the option of bringing the little ones to the cinema, too! :s12: :s12:
 

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hmmm.. how come i prefer to spend time with my baby gal than with my wife......
 

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Is your wife the worrying type or the type who can let go?

A friend of mine his wife will worry about their kids and keep face-timing the kids even when they go on couple hot date for a few hours. In his case, he has given up trying to spend quality 1 to 1 time with the wife.
 

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Gosh, that's sad.

Is your wife the worrying type or the type who can let go?

A friend of mine his wife will worry about their kids and keep face-timing the kids even when they go on couple hot date for a few hours. In his case, he has given up trying to spend quality 1 to 1 time with the wife.
 

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You will regret to get married soon.Many married couple don't want kids. Our famous local actress also like that. You will slowly follow people foot step at Sammyboy. Most of them are happily married outside but inside not. That's why so many Spa can open in this current economy. Demand and supply. Not all just want to have special service, they go there to have someone to talk to.

It been 2 years since I went to a cinema after my daughter is born . Any 1 of you just park your kid with parents or what so ever on a Sunday then go a hot date with wife ?
 

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You'll also regret having kids too late too. One of the day I took grab. The uncle wah, was 50yo. His three kid - 13yo, 15yo, 17/18yo. I was like.. uncle. You better buy more insurance. 😂😂
 
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