Felicia Chin opens up about trying for a baby, admits she felt pressure to have kids

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The pressure would be have been there anyway due to her age regardless of whether anyone else talked to her about it. The biological clock is something that women cannot escape from (notwithstanding freezing). Men also but to a lesser extent.

And it's not just the pressure of being able to conceive at all. It's also the pressure of not knowing whether the baby could end up having defects due to being conceived at an advanced age.

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The pressure would be have been there anyway due to her age regardless of whether anyone else talked to her about it. The biological clock is something that women cannot escape from (notwithstanding freezing). Men also but to a lesser extent.

And it's not just the pressure of being able to conceive at all. It's also the pressure of not knowing whether the baby could end up having defects due to being conceived at an advanced age.

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Man also 70yo sperm strong still can give birth

Got money ok
 

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Her in-laws could have stressed her on the issue. PRC their mentality could bend towards a certain extreme.
沒子孫大不敬。maybe soon divorce and ask son find another lady

She 42yo leh not 32 or 22yo, forget about having kids anymore. She 1984. My mother and sister all give birth at 28yo. Marry at 26yo. I remenbered my sis told me when she 25yo time to get marry. Hint the first bf when she knew when she was 16. The bf agreed and propose to her.
 
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The best time for giving birth and to have healthy baby is around 18 to before 30 years old?

In Dynasty era, usually woman give birth during age 16 to 20. Age 24 not yet married out will get worried.
 

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Thats the social dilemma which people easily ignore.

I would guess both are financially sound right now to have dependents. From her perspective I think she would want at least 2 or more?

But if she had given birth 10 years earlier, she would not have the status she would want to be. She was trying to survive in her 20s and peak at 30. She would need to take time out from celebrity work which is day in night out or endless days spent on film set / abroad

Judging from her personality she would probably want to spend more time with her babies and her career path would be impacted and wont be able to host a YouTube show like she want to be.
 

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20岁,我在模糊中生存。
30岁,我开始学习生活。
40岁,我终于开始绽放。

而李腾,也在成为丈夫、成为父亲之后,重新认识了自己。多年以后,我们依然记得彼此最初的模样,也看见彼此一路走来的改变。所以,今天我想为他煮这一餐。

At 20, I was trying to find my way.
At 30, I began to learn how to live.
At 40, I finally began to bloom.

And Li Teng, too, began to rediscover himself after becoming a husband, and then a father. Years later, we still remember each other as we were when we first met, even as we see how much we’ve both grown. And so, today, I want to cook for him.



Li Teng became father, yet Felicia is trying for a baby? So they are not married to one another?
 

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i also want to haf kids but nobody asked for my opinion.. in my case is more of moi innate desire instead of pressure.. :frown:
 

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Why need excuse to **** everyday? In the first place who will know if she **** everyday or not?

*p i a k also become a censored word?

lol at p i a k being a censored word. wtf sort of nanny state are we in.

anyway 42yrs old wanna try for kids, not a very good idea.
but well, its their life, their choice.
 

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Very typical Singaporean route now..marry late want have kids late only to find out it's no longer easy. Government have to facilitate younger couples to have kids so don have to fork out high medical cost in the first place just for IVF. Might be cheaper for them in long run instead of support for Ivf copayment
 
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