Confused & need help

[confusedandneedhelp]

Hello ,

So, I have a friend who's currently confused right now. Long story short, she is attached to this toxic guy for almost 2 years. Always the one paying for everything, even up to his food and cigarettes. So, he has been coming to stayover for months and now she found out she's pregnant. This guy is now preventing my friend and her parents from letting the guy's parents to know about this issue by sweettalking to her. And also to just go for abortion and that's it. My friend being blinded by love is agreeing to his requests . What should she do or in this case, what would you do ?

 

[sellun]

I hope you're not the "friend". The girl will always lose out on such situation.. your friend will have to live with the guilt forever, you will only feel it after everything. Not to mention the harmfulness abortion will cause to the girl's body.

Knowing the guy is such a loser, I would of course leave the guy but not without telling the parents what he did. And be a single mother if I can get enough support from family.

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[Sharonyap2505]

Not wanting to let his parents know is a clear, definite sign that he doesn't want to take responsibility for his actions. And going for abortion... Its the guy who suggests, but ultimately its the girl's choice. He can sweet talk all he wants, but a sensible girl would know how to make decisions on her own.

But I know for sure this kind of relationship won't last long. Think about the future.

 

[Crexzz]

Such guys are toxic and will burn your already short life away.

I don't think love is the only reason she's sticking to him. Maybe lack of confidence? Or lack of courage to go out of her usual routine?

She'll need to cut off ties with him before deciding on the fate of the baby

If she managed to cut off that toxic guy, she'll then need to sit down with her family and consider her options. Because going thru pregnancy to raising a child ain't easy, if she decided to keep it, she'll need a lot of support from her family

And also to consider her own future, with or without the child

 

[RyanJ]

Cut off ties with the vermin, and sit down discuss with family , come to an informed and agreed decision re: pregnancy

In cases of abortion, making an individual choice alone without support may wreck one with a psychological scar that may haunt them forever. ( depends of course on the level of mental resilience as well ) Need to defray off that decision making stress.

 

[Taloona]

End the relationship,no use telling his parents as they may side him. If the girl has family support, can consider raising the child, if not, give the child up for adoption. She will give a childless couple an opportunity to be parents.

In Spore, the home assessment report for adoptive parents are pretty strict, so the adoptive parents are likely to have the means and disposition to bring up the child.

 

[coey]

How old are the couple in question?

 

[sacrificium]

Hello ,

So, I have a friend who's currently confused right now. Long story short, she is attached to this toxic guy for almost 2 years. Always the one paying for everything, even up to his food and cigarettes. So, he has been coming to stayover for months and now she found out she's pregnant. This guy is now preventing my friend and her parents from letting the guy's parents to know about this issue by sweettalking to her. And also to just go for abortion and that's it. My friend being blinded by love is agreeing to his requests . What should she do or in this case, what would you do ?

Seems like your friend needs medication to cure stupidness. Already know the guy is toxic but still choose to be with him. Not sure how proper is your friend as well.

 

[Hellfire]

Seems like your friend needs medication to cure stupidness. Already know the guy is toxic but still choose to be with him. Not sure how proper is your friend as well.

Sorry stupidity has no cure until now no one can find a cure for it! Stupid right?