What88 asks a good question.
Have you read of a case in which a couple end up with nothing but regret.
OK, but where would I read about couples (or widows or widowers) who are satisfied or delighted with their reverse mortgages? I would expect to hear from people who aren't happy with them. I wouldn't necessarily expect to hear from people who are happy with them. "Squeaky wheel" and all. Also, reverse mortgages are all about tapping personally owned assets to provide a stream of current income. Is
anybody truly "happy" to do that? It's not the sort of financial maneuver that you would expect to inspire joy like this:
That said, the key problem with reverse mortgages is that they're financial products that (in many countries) are the worst possible combination: out-of-the-ordinary (small market problems), poorly regulated, more complex than they need to be, and poorly explained. They are, in other words, too often excellent vehicles for financial services firms to prey on and to abuse customers -- for wolves to act like wolves. Which, in turn, is an excellent argument for why CPF and/or HDB ought to offer reverse mortgages. (HDB does, to a degree.) Assuming, of course, those government agencies make fair reverse mortgage/lease buyback offers that are as simple as possible and explained well.
I'm a moderate fan of reverse mortgages
conceptually, but I agree they need to be better in the real world, in most countries. CPF could help. So could community organizations. In some countries there are trusted membership organizations that endorse simple, fairly priced financial products. Maybe that too would be possible in Singapore -- the "People's Association Simple Reverse Mortgage," for example. Or NTUC, perhaps.