"He who knows not where he stands in life will never stand up in life" - Joshua Foo

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I stumbled upon this post and i found the quote very meaningful.

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I want to thank Joshua Foo. He made me realised many things in life, and one of them is to know where I should stand and how to stand firm...

I was 16 when I joined a secret society. I started to pick up smoking, drink and play truancy, and failed all my exams. But ever since I join the secret society, I've been paying my headman protection fees in order to stay with him. It went on for almost 2 years. Till one day I didn't have money to pay him anymore and he threatened to whack me if I didn't pay. I was so scared I went home to steal my parents’ money. I felt bad and guilty at that point. Once I even sell my Samsung S3 my mum gave me just to pay him, but I told him this will be the last time and wanted to quit the gang. He slapped my face and threaten me again that if i do so, i'll be in deep trouble. So I continue my stay, pondering if I made the right move from the start.

One night at a disco with my headman, he saw a familiar face and shouted Lei Gong. At that point I was really amazed as I swear I've heard of his name and stories a million times even before I join the gang. Everyone was talking about him like those hong kong gu huo zai. Even my classmates heard of him too. I'm one of them who had look up to him. But I knew one thing about him was he managed to quit his gang. I was curious and eager to talk to him and really wanted to ask him for advices on how to quit a gang. That night I manage to get his number before he left. The following night, I called him and went out personally to meet him for a few times to talk about the problem I was facing. I was desperate and I asked him for help. Due to his history, my headman had no choice and later let me quit the gang without any consequences.

Joshua told me this that i will remember for life, "He who knows not where he stands in life will never stand up in life". Those words had given me a huge impact on my life. I was very lost, but his words help me know who i am and what i have today, a son with good parents. Thank you Joshua Foo for all that you have done for me.
 
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I can't help being curious who is Joshua Foo exactly that made the henchman to let a little boy quit the gang without any consequences...
 

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I can't help being curious who is Joshua Foo exactly that made the henchman to let a little boy quit the gang without any consequences...

I google him, he is a motivational speaker and an author. I was surprised my brother was talking about him. I think he use to be a leader of some notorious gang.
 
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I google him, he is a motivational speaker and an author. I was surprised my brother was talking about him. I think he use to be a leader of some notorious gang.

May I ask how did your brother know about joshua Foo? From his school? Wow, i never knew that JF is so well known for his courage to quit his gang.

How did JF manage to quit his notorious gang?
Cool!
 

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May I ask how did your brother know about joshua Foo? From his school? Wow, i never knew that JF is so well known for his courage to quit his gang.

How did JF manage to quit his notorious gang?
Cool!

My brother was reading his book. I didn't know how he managed to quit his gang.

The book name is 'this is business my life as a Singapore gangster'. See what he quote in the book, 'usually when I want my words to be heard I always make certain they hurt but this time I will say humbly, you people are so poor all you have till death is money', JF is from 369.
 
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My brother was reading his book. I didn't know how he managed to quit his gang.

The book name is 'this is business my life as a Singapore gangster'. See what he quote in the book, 'usually when I want my words to be heard I always make certain they hurt but this time I will say humbly, you people are so poor all you have till death is money', JF is from 369.

How did your brother come to know about his book?
Casually came across his book?

Sounds interesting. Reading this makes me want to pick up his book and read it. :)

Why did he want his words to hurt?

Hmm...his words - "you people are so poor all you have till death is money" means what?
Hmm...Not all people have only $$, are poor.
 

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TS, may i ask where did you stumble this post? Kindly specify that link here. Thks. I would like to read it.

Yup, I borrowed that book form the library. I find the first few pages highly entertaining. I must say he was the stupidest gangster that I ever read. Now he is smarter to quit the gang, no longer stupid anymore. :)

Remember the new saying - whosever joins the gang, is really the stupidest!!!
 
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