Lost my dad: Suggestions to cope with loss?

[Ronaldo88]

My dad pass away on 29th April at ttsh..
what are ways to cope with the loss?
feel sad no longer can see him or hear his voice.
how i wish is just a bad dream than reality

 

[buffybuffy]

Condolences to TS and family. But please don’t link family lost with voting.

 

[yeungho]

My dad pass away on 29th April at ttsh..unable to cast his vote.
what are ways to cope with the loss?

Condolences & sorry for your loss.

 

[TitanSmall]

Sorry for your loss.. please take care..

 

[gravity_infinity]

My dad pass away on 29th April at ttsh..
what are ways to cope with the loss?

nothing except to accept it. but it will takes time. in the meantime just ensure his funeral is taken care of.

 

[Laneige]

My dad pass away on 29th April at ttsh..
what are ways to cope with the loss?

Simi religion
If Buddhist or Taoist can help do some offering for him

If u have belief n feel can help him and indirectly helping u to take some time off the loss, then help to do for him

As for loss, it really depends on how u see the whole thing
Sometimes things don’t hit at first few days
But well, that’s life

Most impt is we live better n don’t sink into depression etc

 

[Mixxxy]

Sorry about your loss but life has to go on.

I am alive and I am not given a vote. My MP also abandoned me.

 

[Hot_Dog]

It will heal wib time. Live a good life to honour your dad.

 

[Ronaldo88]

Simi religion
If Buddhist or Taoist can help do some offering for him

If u have belief n feel can help him and indirectly helping u to take some time off the loss, then help to do for him

we having buddhist ceremony

 

[reno77]

Ways to cope ? Hmm.. Everyone dies, What's important is that you pass on what you learnt from him onto the next generation

 

[koster]

My deepest condolences. Take care

 

[EDMW-Hates-Me]

Want to cry, cry, but life goes on. Remember your dad would want you to live your life well.

 

[Go Fly Kite]

Rip.... take care

 

[Simon_Cowell]

I’m sorry to hear about your loss. All life comes to an end eventually. I hope that u can stay strong for the ones who love u

 

[joeey]

Condolences. Think of what he did for u when he was around. The memories can act as a condolences to living better because he is in a better place right now, no pain or sufferings.. He is watching over you silently.

 

[superjellybelly]

Sorry for your loss. Healing takes time. Just don’t be too hard on yourself and chill whenever you can. I’m sure things will work out eventually.

 

[Joe Maya]

My condolences.

Life goes on, think positive, go for a jog.

 

[Yuripa]

Sorry for your loss TS.

Time will heal your pain and you gotta stay strong for your family.

Worst case scenario is take a break from work and speak to a family centre councilor. Some times all you need is the correct person to speak to. Hope that it will help you a little.

And for the guys who came in here talking about votes and mps, please spare a thought for TS - I like to believe that some of you are just trying to be light hearted and try to joke around to tickle TS but I don't think it's really appropriate to hijack the thread of such nature.

 

[econ food]

My condolences..hoe ts cope with the fees? Sea or land may I know ?

 

[Mclairs83]

everybody will go thru this stage.

1) settle the funeral first.
2) after which, clear his belongings.. as soon as you can.. keep small items that are significant to you. this is to shorten the grief period.
3) anything on his estate, monetary. check if he left any will and instruct law firm to execute. print lots of death cert. they will need it.

move on.. and be strong. treasure and spend more time with your mum (if she still around)