Need help on renouncing PR while serving NS?

pikafunk3

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I'm deeply, deeply depressed and the reason is bc I'm serving NS. I know that doesn't make any sense and that everyone else can do it, but for some reason, it's really taking a toll on me. I have a terrible appetite, can't sleep and probably will kill myself if my only option is serving for 21 more months.


i think the problem is not NS itself

the problem is why you are unable to handle NS

if you think NS is hard, then adult life wont be any easier.

you need to evaluate the reasons for such problems.

spoilt child? bad upbringing? mental weakness? wrong mindset in life? poor social skills? loneliness? etc.

solve this problem first.

even if you migrate, you will have other problems in life in the future. what then? run away again?

running away is never a solution. do you always run away from problems? suicide is just another coward's way of running away.
 
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eh u dun really have to renounce your PR to get out of NS leh. if so dire, have you reported to MO to see a psychiatrist? If they verified that you are indeed having serious depression, you maybe discharged and given PES F because of that leh.
Yeah, having thought about it and discussed it with parents, I think an alternative option may be better as giving up PR might be risky. And one of those possibilities might be PES F, but isn't that almost impossible to get?
 

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eh u dun really have to renounce your PR to get out of NS leh. if so dire, have you reported to MO to see a psychiatrist? If they verified that you are indeed having serious depression, you maybe discharged and given PES F because of that leh.
And I am seeing a psychiatrist outside at CGH, on medication as well. I'm also seeing SCC and have an appointment with ***, but only in February... I'm considering admitting myself to IMH, bc at certain times I feel so horrible that I'm scared I'll end my life
 

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And I am seeing a psychiatrist outside at CGH, on medication as well. I'm also seeing SCC and have an appointment with ***, but only in February... I'm considering admitting myself to IMH, bc at certain times I feel so horrible that I'm scared I'll end my life

Seems like by admitting to IMH is your best choice if IMH allows your admission!👍
 

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Yeah, having thought about it and discussed it with parents, I think an alternative option may be better as giving up PR might be risky. And one of those possibilities might be PES F, but isn't that almost impossible to get?
if your case is genuine and they deem it serious enough, why would PES F be impossible to get?

And I am seeing a psychiatrist outside at CGH, on medication as well. I'm also seeing SCC and have an appointment with ***, but only in February... I'm considering admitting myself to IMH, bc at certain times I feel so horrible that I'm scared I'll end my life
why not
 

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if your case is genuine and they deem it serious enough, why would PES F be impossible to get?

why not
it definitely is genuine and if my options are killing myself and getting PES F, I'll definitely try getting PES F. Just don't know anyone who got it, and how the process would be. If you know anything at all, lemme know, I'd really appreciate it!
 

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it definitely is genuine and if my options are killing myself and getting PES F, I'll definitely try getting PES F. Just don't know anyone who got it, and how the process would be. If you know anything at all, lemme know, I'd really appreciate it!
There’s no need to convince me.

You just need to see doctors, they write report. MO deem serious enough, then they put you up for medical board.

Don’t know anyone who got it doesn’t mean don’t have.
 

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WEAK boiii why come Sg in the first place?
does it make you happy just shitting on people? does it make yourself feel better? like you can think I'm being pathetic and that I'm not going about it the right way, that's your opinion. But all you're doing is shitting on people, presumably for fun. It's very unconstructive and you're just being a dick, so i gotta ask why you bother doing this...
 

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does it make you happy just shitting on people? does it make yourself feel better? like you can think I'm being pathetic and that I'm not going about it the right way, that's your opinion. But all you're doing is shitting on people, presumably for fun. It's very unconstructive and you're just being a dick, so i gotta ask why you bother doing this...
cause maybe like u said, he is a dick?
 

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I got PES F, But it was not a choice I could accept. Thinking back I would rather serve and F off. If you need to take MC to recover during camp, visit your psy in the local govt hospital. Else wait for the visit to *** for them to evaluate your condition . If they were to issue you MC at ***, There's no need for you to endorse the Mc( hope you recover soon mate )
 

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I got PES F, But it was not a choice I could accept. Thinking back I would rather serve and F off. If you need to take MC to recover during camp, visit your psy in the local govt hospital. Else wait for the visit to *** for them to evaluate your condition . If they were to issue you MC at ***, There's no need for you to endorse the Mc( hope you recover soon mate )
yeah hopefully... I really just want to be done with this, it's always stressing me out and I'm barely getting by from day to day...
 
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