The key to remember is that Mr X and Mrs X are childless and both have their own siblings - plse refer Scenario that I posted in post #1.
I don't think I've written anything inconsistent with that reality.
Perhaps yr outlook might be different but just as Mr X does not expect any bequests from any of Mrs X's siblings, neither does he feel obliged to leave bequests to any of Mrs X's siblings.
OK, but I haven't assumed either way.
What Mr. X definitely doesn't get to decide is how Mrs. X distributes her estate upon her passing.
Bearing in mind too, that Mrs X has assets of her own and Mr X fully expects that some if not the majority of these assets will be bequeathed to Mrs X's siblings in her Will
That's solely her decision. She's an equal person under the law — and hopefully otherwise, too.
Mr X loves his wife and does not mind if Mrs X uses all that he possesses while she lives but he would want any unused assets to revert to his own siblings. Without a crystal ball, Mr X does not know how long Mrs X will live after he is gone. To ensure she has sufficient funds to cover any contingency, let's say Mr X bequeaths his wife a lump sum of $2mm. But due to unforseen circumstances, let’s imagine Mrs X passes on just 1 month after Mr X. In such circumstances, if there had been no prior discussions, the $2mm would be distributed according to Mrs X's Will and presumably to her siblings. This is the situation that Mr X wishes to avoid
First of all, why would he want to avoid that? Isn't part of genuinely loving your wife also not even attempting to control how she distributes
her estate?
But I think we've been through this many times, and I'll repeat:
the answer to uncertainty about longevity is longevity insurance, i.e. a life annuity (preferably escalating) from a reliable, high quality payor. Then there's no material risk she will outlive her inheritance and wealth. And that, it turn, means Mr. X can assure his wife will live comfortably for all the rest of her days (even VERY comfortably)
and he can share some of his wealth with his siblings, now if he wishes.
On yr questions:
1. Why the need for Mrs X to keep monies separate if there is no Jt Ac? Answer is that Mrs X has her own assets (incl monies)
Yeah, and if/when she inherits anything — from Mr. X or anyone else — those assets are hers, too. If she wants to donate or bequeath her wealth to the Church of Spaghetti she has that right.
I think you're basically suggesting (but not coming right out and saying it) that Mr. X is attempting to control his wife at least from beyond the grave. That's quite odd to me for reasons that are hopefully obvious. My suggestion is he not even try to control his wife or her decisions from beyond the grave but that, rather, he provide generously for her to the end of her days (life annuity plus lump sum)
and provide lump sums to his siblings. That means his wife's lifestyle is assured, her independence is respected (as it should be), and his siblings get some gifts earlier (while they're still alive, or more likely to be alive) rather than later. If Mrs. X's siblings inherit something and/or receive gifts, OK, that's
her decision.
2. Why must Mr X's siblings wait b4 they get to enjoy...". This can be taken care of by Mr X also leaving some lump sums to his siblings directly as per my earlier post.
Exactly, and Mr. X can do that
without risking his surviving wife's financial security through a combination of a generous life annuity (preferably escalating) plus lump sum for her.
But Mr X's first priority is still to his spouse and that is reflected by the Jt Ac arrangement and the life annuity with Mr X's sibling as nominee
Joint accounts just don't work for these purposes. If he genuinely cares about his wife's financial security then having any joint account holder is inherently risky. If
Mrs. X wants to make that decision (to add a joint account holder) then she can.
BTW this phrasing - "Second, if Mr. X should predecease me, I bequeath a sum equal to what I inherited from Mr. X to his surviving siblings, divided among them in equal parts." is not entirely correct. Mrs X needs to only bequeath the Balance of the sum that she inherited from Mr X. Without a Jt Ac or proper accounting, it would be impossible for an executor to determine the Balance
There are possible solutions, but...trying to control Mrs. X from beyond the grave? Really?
One of the first few comments in this thread has already given you the right answer: Mrs X is a life tenant, and Mr Y is the remainderman.
That arrangement can sometimes work for a home, but there can be significant disadvantages (as mentioned in this thread).
Let me see if I can translate the obtuse nature of this thread. Apparently Mr. X loathes Mrs. X's siblings, and Mrs. X doesn't. So Mr. X is trying to engineer an estate plan that attempts to control Mrs. X's estate and gift giving decisions after Mr. X passes on, to curb Mrs. X's possible generosity toward her siblings.
Well, I suppose Mr. X can try. (I've suggested one possible formula. It won't absolutely prevent Mrs. X from sharing some of "his" dollars with Mrs. X's siblings, but it'll come relatively close. A professional estate planner might have other ideas.) FWIW I think this way: loving my wife means loving what makes her happy — assuming what makes her happy doesn't hurt anyone, of course. I can't think of anyone in my extended family I loathe, but let's assume there were such a person: Mr. L. If giving something to Mr. L makes my wife happy then that's what matters, my wife's happiness. Her happiness wins. And (in this scenario) I wouldn't be feeling anything anyway because I'd be dead. Your mileage may vary, of course.