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Welcome to the Realistic People Club.
In light of both positive people club and negative people club focusing on either end of the spectrum of mindset, I've decided to start this as a middle ground for people who feel they are neither positive nor negative. People who want to analyze and face situations objectively and achieve outcomes that can be both positive and negative depending on circumstances. People who want to help others by giving realistic and practical suggestions rather than impractical or perfunctory ones. People who hate the doom and gloom of toxic negativity that causes your mood and problems to become worse than before you entered the thread. This is a place to share real world problems and get realistic and practical suggestions on resolving it. It is also a place to chit chat if you are a realist.

Realist vs Positive

Realists tend to be more practical and realistic in their approach towards life situations while optimists have a tendency of seeing the brighter side of life. Realists take into account all the factors involved while optimists tend to focus on one or two factors that they think will lead them towards success without considering other factors that could potentially lead them down a wrong path.

Realist vs Negative
A realist is a person who believes very strongly in being grounded in reality, and not swinging too much towards optimism or pessimism. A realist is more likely to be objective about situations and can solve problems planning for both positive and negative outcomes.
A pessimist is someone who always looks on the dark side of things, and thinks about all the negative outcomes of an event or situation. They tend to dwell on this, which can be very draining for them and others around them.
 

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yes. moi ish jin realistic...
noes buay gan means forever buay gan...just live heypi bbfa life can riao :o
It's good to know one's limitations but please do not belittle your own capabilities. Set a target (that's specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and timebound) and work towards it. Once you attained it, move it a little bit further, until you reach your limitation. Nothing worse than not even trying. That's doing yourself a disservice.
 

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In page 1 of an epic thread.

And this is why i buy 4d n toto.

I realised that with my skills and everything else. I will never be able to count to $1m in my lifetime.

Neither do i want to be negative and hark on about yet doing nothing or just dreaming about fortune.

.When will i strike it? Might i even strike it?

who knows So I decided to embark on this unknown journey one step at a time!


I WANT TO TIO 4D FIRST PRIZE!
 

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I don't set a very high goal.
I am more down to earth guy.
Eat chaipng
Seldom go food court .
Not to mention restaurant.
Seldom buy new cloths
My realistic very down to earth, easily to achieve
You're being realistic by not setting very high goal. What's the point of saying I want to be a billionaire when it's empty talk. What you are doing is correct, bro.
 

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In page 1 of an epic thread.

And this is why i buy 4d n toto.

I realised that with my skills and everything else. I will never be able to count to $1m in my lifetime.

Neither do i want to be negative and hark on about yet doing nothing or just dreaming about fortune.

.When will i strike it? Might i even strike it?

who knows So I decided to embark on this unknown journey one step at a time!


I WANT TO TIO 4D FIRST PRIZE!
Do understand the odds of striking toto is very very low. I would rather you see it as doing charity and buying a hope and if you really strike, it's God's gift to you or extremely lucky. I'd advocate that you buy within your limits and just treat it as donation. You won't donate more than you can afford.
 

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Will it end up like negative?
Even we say something bad happen in our life
, at the end of day people still can give practical solutions but the tone and choice of words sound like bullying.
You can help by setting the tone right too. Anyway, it's ok to feel negative. Nobody can be free of daichi all the time. Most important is to stand up and continue the fight after one has rested and nursed wounds enough.
 

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You're being realistic by not setting very high goal. What's the point of saying I want to be a billionaire when it's empty talk. What you are doing is correct, bro.

Bro I love to be rich but must be realistic myself.
Know my limit, I only earn such salary, no cars , nothing..
But it's okay ..happy cam already.

People used to set high realistic goals n can't achieve it, making oneself stress
 
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