The reason why dating scene is difficult in Singapore.

twinbaby

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Of course for a start, we are supposed to put what we like if we continue to put what we don't like even I myself will be turned off. However, in the long run, they will know about this:
  1. For example, if I say, I do not like dogs. But the woman put dogs or cats, you are out immediately before you even get a chance to tell you like cats and don't mind having one at home.
  2. The woman said they do not like smoking, however, they do not give you a chance to say that you have tried to quit and will do so by March.
  3. If you are not catholic or protestant, you are out immediately, even if you say you are willing to convert.
  4. Other reasons say you have cancer and are out of employment, you never have the chance to say that you have a 1 million payout from insurance or you have found a very huge paying job next month.
  5. They always like to put a lot of photos saying that they have traveled to Europe and Japan, but you say you prefer going to Johor Bahru, they don't give you a chance to explain that you do mind going there once a year if the weather is not so hot/cold.
  6. You say you don't like coffee, I do not like spicy food, you are out immediately
  7. You say you prefer to speak Mandarin, and I don't like to speak English, you are out immediately as well.
  8. You can say that you are BBFA, or obese, but before you have a chance to say that you will lose 30 in one month, based on appearance, and screen you out.
  9. They often say that they do like to travel outdoor because the weather in Singapore is very hot.
disclaimer: all these does not represent me.

The reason is simply is people don't have the patience to do so and understand you, they are not willing to compromise, maybe only by 5%, even if you have a very high income, and understand you. The only chance you'll get to date them is only when you are better than them, but more often than not. They have spent a lot of money on appearance and take a lot of high risk spending.
 
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  1. For example, if I say, I do not like dogs. But the woman put dogs or cats, you are out immediately before you even get a chance to tell you like cats and don't mind having one at home.
  2. The woman said they do not like smoking, however, they do not give you a chance to say that you have tried to quit and will do so by March.
  3. If you are not catholic or protestant, you are out immediately, even if you say you are willing to convert.
  4. Other reasons say you have cancer and are out of employment, you never have the chance to say that you have a 1 million payout from insurance or you have found a very huge paying job next month.
  5. They always like to put a lot of photos saying that they have traveled to Europe and Japan, but you say you prefer going to Johor Bahru, they don't give you a chance to explain that you do mind going there once a year if the weather is not so hot/cold.
  6. You say you don't like coffee, I do not like spicy food, you are out immediately
  7. You say you prefer to speak Mandarin, and I don't like to speak English, you are out immediately as well.
  8. You can say that you are BBFA, or obese, but before you have a chance to say that you will lose 30 in one month, based on appearance, and screen you out.
  9. They often say that they do like to travel outdoor because the weather in Singapore is very hot.

The reason is simply is people don't have the patience to do so, they are not willing to compromise, maybe only by 5%, even if you have a very high income, and understand you. The only chance you'll get to date them is only when you are better than them, but more often than not. They have spent a lot of money on appearance and take a lot of high risk spending.
Say u wanna quit and do it later ish as well dun say. Break promise all the time. What he never say is quit by March, smoke again by April
 
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  1. For example, if I say, I do not like dogs. But the woman put dogs or cats, you are out immediately before you even get a chance to tell you like cats and don't mind having one at home.
  2. The woman said they do not like smoking, however, they do not give you a chance to say that you have tried to quit and will do so by March.
  3. If you are not catholic or protestant, you are out immediately, even if you say you are willing to convert.
  4. Other reasons say you have cancer and are out of employment, you never have the chance to say that you have a 1 million payout from insurance or you have found a very huge paying job next month.
  5. They always like to put a lot of photos saying that they have traveled to Europe and Japan, but you say you prefer going to Johor Bahru, they don't give you a chance to explain that you do mind going there once a year if the weather is not so hot/cold.
  6. You say you don't like coffee, I do not like spicy food, you are out immediately
  7. You say you prefer to speak Mandarin, and I don't like to speak English, you are out immediately as well.
  8. You can say that you are BBFA, or obese, but before you have a chance to say that you will lose 30 in one month, based on appearance, and screen you out.
  9. They often say that they do like to travel outdoor because the weather in Singapore is very hot.

The reason is simply is people don't have the patience to do so and understand you, they are not willing to compromise, maybe only by 5%, even if you have a very high income, and understand you. The only chance you'll get to date them is only when you are better than them, but more often than not. They have spent a lot of money on appearance and take a lot of high risk spending.
So true....
Some guy before start to talk, already out.
 

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it's same for me also.. as rong as u fat, straight away also out. 🤣
i got no patience as well, i also dun like to gas, dun waste my time.
 

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  1. For example, if I say, I do not like dogs. But the woman put dogs or cats, you are out immediately before you even get a chance to tell you like cats and don't mind having one at home.
  2. The woman said they do not like smoking, however, they do not give you a chance to say that you have tried to quit and will do so by March.
  3. If you are not catholic or protestant, you are out immediately, even if you say you are willing to convert.
  4. Other reasons say you have cancer and are out of employment, you never have the chance to say that you have a 1 million payout from insurance or you have found a very huge paying job next month.
  5. They always like to put a lot of photos saying that they have traveled to Europe and Japan, but you say you prefer going to Johor Bahru, they don't give you a chance to explain that you do mind going there once a year if the weather is not so hot/cold.
  6. You say you don't like coffee, I do not like spicy food, you are out immediately
  7. You say you prefer to speak Mandarin, and I don't like to speak English, you are out immediately as well.
  8. You can say that you are BBFA, or obese, but before you have a chance to say that you will lose 30 in one month, based on appearance, and screen you out.
  9. They often say that they do like to travel outdoor because the weather in Singapore is very hot.

The reason is simply is people don't have the patience to do so and understand you, they are not willing to compromise, maybe only by 5%, even if you have a very high income, and understand you. The only chance you'll get to date them is only when you are better than them, but more often than not. They have spent a lot of money on appearance and take a lot of high risk spending.
Then state all these clearly upfront on your dating app profile lor
 

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Understand keelan

If female put these, dun like this dun like that I am put off

You are supposed to put what you like etc and what is with those stupid smoking and being too fat but will quit/lose in 30 days?

Talk who dunno? You actually actioned no will will know
 

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Understand keelan

If female put these, dun like this dun like that I am put off

You are supposed to put what you like etc and what is with those stupid smoking and being too fat but will quit/lose in 30 days?

Talk who dunno? You actually actioned no will will know

please forgive ts
 
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