Today ish moi birthday....

MoeLanYong

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EDIT on 30 Oct 2023

Meimei this year have something to announce:

Meimei from today, is off the shelf liao. :s34: :love::o

Happy birthday TS and gxgx for being merried!!

I wish you happiness!!
 

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congrats sounds like there is progress in your career earn abit more pocket money.

me is stress of losing job.
Progress? I don't know.. it's more like I don't know what I want in life so I just stay put for now. Boss ask me career aspirations is what, I just tell her don't know... I guess when you are mid 30s in lower level job, seeing how more pay means more stress and responsibility, don't feel like climbing already..

My day?
Kinda powerful.
My PM tells me company have no new job, so likely have to release my employment. Says he fought for me to stay till year end and give me my year end bonus.
So don’t feel sad just because you didn’t take care of yourself. Feel happy because we all get to see the next day.
There will always be nonsenses happening, but don’t let it bog yourself down to have a smile at the end of the day that you had survived through it.
Jiayou
You have a good pm. He telling you in advance so you can quickly go interview and all these. I'm sorry to hear about your circumstances. This environment has not been easy lately.

I'm someone who takes things very hard, a bit perfectionist, a bit procrastinate.. so things snowball and things can suddenly happen very fast which I don't like, but of course no one likes work so I guess it's normal..

Congrats on MX11A

Happy belated bday
I think I'm mx11 only.
I don't desire to climb career ladder. Very jaded already.

this forum a lot of scorpios it seems

my birthday few days before yours
Happy birthday to you too :)
 

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Progress? I don't know.. it's more like I don't know what I want in life so I just stay put for now. Boss ask me career aspirations is what, I just tell her don't know... I guess when you are mid 30s in lower level job, seeing how more pay means more stress and responsibility, don't feel like climbing already..
For some people, the climb itself is the driver.

I think I'm mx11 only.
My peers from first jod who went into gahmen are now 11, 11A and 10 (title SAD). Dunno which god the 10 guy prays to.

I don't desire to climb career ladder. Very jaded already.
I think its fine to lay flat... in the end, we all die, likely after our parents, and can't bring the money to afterlife anyway.
 

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Happy Birthday 🎂 I always thought you are older than me but based on comment someone say this is your 30th bday?

Anw seems like we have common point on 1 thing. Since 2025 I cried on my bday n this yr. Looking at how behkan and how far I'm behind.

U are doing so much better than me, stayed in same job for 8 years, got promoted, got stable income, married someone you like. That is a lot progression and even trying for kids.

Unlike me still bbfa, still sexless, still penniless, still no stability, no huat big big, no satki job status, no make it in life. Can't even stay in a job for long. So compared to me u are doing so much better.

I expected when I'm 30 I would have house and car, now 31 I only have monopoly house and 2 legs as kah.

I actually just turned 36. No idea where your 30 came from. :s13:

I thought u got job liao. Boss bully you? Govt sector is safer for singaporeans, u manage to get a place there?
 
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this forum a lot of scorpios it seems

my birthday few days before yours
Happy birthday to you too
Let's have a happy year together. :)

Today me b/d. Morning take cpf oa $2.42. afternoon jiak mookata with family. Jiak 3hr prus. Eat Until butane gas change another cylinder. Evening jiak banana cake sing b/d song. Life Jin simpur. 😅

Happy birthday to you too.
Seems like many people get born this month.. all the new year gifts? :s13:

Simple happy life is good. The simplest joy is to be surrounded by your loved ones who wish you well and eat your favourite food. 😍
 

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No leh. No children. Trying for 2 yrs le but still nothing. Am seeing a doctor for it. Under unexplained, but think is because too obese.
Oh! Mines also unexplained but mines secondary unexplained infertility. I tot its obesity for me too! So i lost weight! In the end never lay egg since my last child and i gained the weight back.

6 yrs of trying sia…my first kid grew up like an only child even tho i kept trying for a sibling.

jiayou i got a cat to allay the stress of trying n at least got my son. Cat is still here but no more second kid…

I think ivf is still on the books but haiz. Ivf may nt be successful also…
 

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Oh! Mines also unexplained but mines secondary unexplained infertility. I tot its obesity for me too! So i lost weight! In the end never lay egg since my last child and i gained the weight back.

6 yrs of trying sia…my first kid grew up like an only child even tho i kept trying for a sibling.

jiayou i got a cat to allay the stress of trying n at least got my son. Cat is still here but no more second kid…

I think ivf is still on the books but haiz. Ivf may nt be successful also…

You can try IUI. It is less invasive. Are you seeing a doctor for your condition? Is your doctor putting you on anything?

So far I'm on some hormone pills to regulate my cycle, other than that my doctor says I'm fine. Wondering if I have to change doctor...
 

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You can try IUI. It is less invasive. Are you seeing a doctor for your condition? Is your doctor putting you on anything?

So far I'm on some hormone pills to regulate my cycle, other than that my doctor says I'm fine. Wondering if I have to change doctor...
I have been doing at home insemination on top of trying…iui the concept v similar. They say can consider ivf so i told them I w wait a bit longer until my kits finish then return. Which is around these few mths
 

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Come in celebrate w edmwers.....

Those who have nothing good to say, please avoid thread. Positive vibes only

EDIT on 30 Oct 2023

Meimei this year have something to announce:

Meimei from today, is off the shelf liao. :s34: :love::o
Happy Belated Birthday to You
 

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Progress? I don't know.. it's more like I don't know what I want in life so I just stay put for now. Boss ask me career aspirations is what, I just tell her don't know... I guess when you are mid 30s in lower level job, seeing how more pay means more stress and responsibility, don't feel like climbing already..


You have a good pm. He telling you in advance so you can quickly go interview and all these. I'm sorry to hear about your circumstances. This environment has not been easy lately.

I'm someone who takes things very hard, a bit perfectionist, a bit procrastinate.. so things snowball and things can suddenly happen very fast which I don't like, but of course no one likes work so I guess it's normal..


I think I'm mx11 only.
I don't desire to climb career ladder. Very jaded already.


Happy birthday to you too :)
Ya, that’s why I appreciate him telling me
Anyway, my point is, sometime look at the little bit positive in your life.
It’s not easy nowadays but try to be happy
 
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