Touching base with your siblings who are married - and why that is important
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Touch Base With Your Married Sibling/s, Especially During This Difficult Period
Today is the 25th of October, 2020, and it is a beautiful Sunday, with clear blue skies overhead and a good breeze blowing. I can even hear the birds outside chirping happily as I type out this post now. Don't take my word for it, go and take a look out of the window now and see for yourself just how wonderful the weather is today. A beautiful day like today can really do wonders for the soul.
However, not everyone may be in a good mood today.
How many of you are old enough to have siblings who are already married and who have already moved out and started a family of their own?
If you have a sister who is already married and who has already moved out to start her own family with her husband, have you touched base with her and asked after her since the start of this year(when the COVID-19 pandemic struck Singapore)?
If you have not, then today is a good day to do it.
And if you happen to be a gal who is reading this, and you are married and you are going through some problems in your marriage and you are bottling up everything and keeping your troubles to yourself and suffering in silence, and you think that you are about to burst if you carry on like this, please know this: No matter what, family is family, and you can always fall back on your own family;
Mummy cares about you and will always love you no matter what; you can always come back and confide in her; your siblings will always be there for you; they are your family. Don't keep everything to yourself.
And to everyone else: SMS, call or WhatsApp your married siblings and touch base with them today, even if it is just to ask how they are doing and how your niece/s, nephew/s are doing, and maybe have a chit-chat with them too. Show your married sibling/s that you have not forgotten about them and let your catching up with them be a cue to let them know that you are there for them should they need to fall back on you, and that, in you, they will have a shoulder to lean on, and also a listening ear.
Gal, this one is for you. Enjoy the song and pay attention to the lyrics and try to understand what it really means. For those who do not understand Chinese, you can highlight the lyrics below and use Google Translate to translate the words.
小姑娘
詞:劉國雄 曲:劉家昌
小姑娘別悲傷 要快快樂樂把歌唱
小姑娘別悲傷 要歡歡喜喜盡情地唱
雖然你陶醉在歌唱世界裡 媽媽絕對不怨你
雖然你沉迷在歌唱世界裡 媽媽還是疼愛著你
Be strong, stay strong, gal. Mummy loves you. Your siblings are there for you, no matter what.