ok... seems like most went for the reconstruction of acl op. so, here's my experience from not going for the op.
first, I fully torn my right acl a few years back (2013) due to soccer too. now 39yo but didn't went for the op. basically doc asked me what I want to be able to do.
option 1, doing the op and with proper rehab and strengthening, I will be able to lead active lifestyle of sports and even soccer.
option 2, without the op and with proper rehab and strengthening, i will be able to lead a normal lifestyle with standard range of motion (except activities which requires me to pivot and twist my knees). so soccer, rollerblading, basketballs are out.
i took option 2, no issues so far for my daily life. I only do low impact activities like cycle, swim and even jogging (less than 10km).