Parenting standards differ very widely. E.g. Mealtimes. Had seen dome Mums ( NOT this case) angry-super-stressed spent hours cooking brocolli/spinach/healthy Salmon, then idiotic kids refuse to eat it, quarrel world-war at home. (NOT this case) Since mum's hard-work not appreciated, divorce & walk-out on kids.( (NOT this case) Also seen some Dads takeover meals, let kids eat ice-cream/JunkFood McDonad/FastFood, (NOT this case) kids dam HAPPY eatIce-Cream+ FrenchFries as Main Meal, grow fat, some Dads (NOT this case) don't care nutrition since kids happy. If obese 100kg can do NS? Next Schooling. if kids exams-results like shiat, (NOT this case), some mums super-stress buy extra-books, pay tuition-fees, ensure kids grades improve. Some dads (NOT this case) can adopt "western style parenting" so if kids don;t wish study,let them play all day,(NOT this case) end-up gabage cleaner is kids' own consequence. Parenting can be daaaaam EASY if some dads ( NOT this case) choose bochap styles (NOT this case) so everything let kids decide watever they wish,dont study is ok too). Parenting can be dam stressful if some mums (NOT this case) ensure kids get best meals, best books, best tuition, best grades, best CCAs.(NOT this case) High or low stress, hundreds ways to do parenting, no right or wrong.