ya, I 開竅 when I was in sec1.....there was this girl that I liked was very friend friend with me.....then 1 day I confess I like her....but I did not say ASGM.......then she ghosted me for the whole of my sec life.......
it was at this moment I realised that most girls cannot, and do not react well if you confess/raise the current relationship.....unless you are her type in the very beginning.......
so from that day onwards, I only friend girls that I wanted to say ASGM to them......no platonic girl friends.....all these are ********to.....platonic girl friends are just 過客 of your life.......