[GLGT]'Shocked at how petty he was': Taiwanese YouTuber recounts date with Sinkie who wanted $1.50 back for teh peng

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https://www.asiaone.com/lifestyle/s...recounts-date-singaporean-who-wanted-150-back

Taiwanese food YouTuber Alison Wu shared a negative experience she had on her first date with a man, where they had gone to a coffee shop.

"I felt he was very petty, I was shocked at how petty he was," she said.

She added that she had bought a teh peng for $1.50, to peals of laughter from the host and fellow podcast guests for her accurate memory.

Alison continued: "And then, after he ordered, he asked me to pay him back, 'Eh, remember to give me the $1.50'."

She added that "more importantly" she had given the man a $2 note and said he could keep the change, which he happily did.

"Then I never went out with him ever again," Alison concluded.

 

[Nevereatrice]

Means he not interested in u la anything wrong for asking back money? I thought women nowadays say i have job i can pay

 

[amognoix]

Spoiler

Why will she think it was a date?

 

[vbhelper]

y woman still have the expectation that
guys need to pay
guys need to take on more work

 

[cosmothecat]

Means he not interested in u la anything wrong for asking back money? I thought women nowadays say i have job i can pay

Most women still have old fashioned thinking that men are supposed to pay for her meals and to support her financially

 

[cosmothecat]

y woman still have the expectation that
guys need to pay
guys need to take on more work

It's normal, majority of women think this way

Hence, if you want to have a GF or wife, you really don't have much choice but to step up to pay for everything

 

[sPacEmAn_sPiFf]

Why will she think it was a date?

This face she buy me starbucks I also don’t wanna go out with her

 

[Alphas]

I thought she said the guy was “pretty”.

 

[homedriver]

This is gender equality. In fact he is the gem. Nowadays hard to find this kind of guy. This mean he is respect the girl which not take the girl as the weak on and always need man’s protection.

 

[Travis_Touchdown]

which bbfa faster own up!!!!!!

 

[Ethan_]

Most women still have old fashioned thinking that men are supposed to pay for her meals and to support her financially

And yet alot expect equality in many things involving men and men money. The thinking contradicts, no wonder society going nowhere much. Unless people align their thoughts with their actions.

 

[HushiePuppies]

https://www.asiaone.com/lifestyle/s...recounts-date-singaporean-who-wanted-150-back

Taiwanese food YouTuber Alison Wu shared a negative experience she had on her first date with a man, where they had gone to a coffee shop.

"I felt he was very petty, I was shocked at how petty he was," she said.

She added that she had bought a teh peng for $1.50, to peals of laughter from the host and fellow podcast guests for her accurate memory.

Alison continued: "And then, after he ordered, he asked me to pay him back, 'Eh, remember to give me the $1.50'."

She added that "more importantly" she had given the man a $2 note and said he could keep the change, which he happily did.

"Then I never went out with him ever again," Alison concluded.

jiao wei sia these women.

if they think $1.50 / $1 so little, then give back la. knn. who the real petty one complaining about it?

 

[amransan]

https://www.asiaone.com/lifestyle/s...recounts-date-singaporean-who-wanted-150-back

Taiwanese food YouTuber Alison Wu shared a negative experience she had on her first date with a man, where they had gone to a coffee shop.

"I felt he was very petty, I was shocked at how petty he was," she said.

She added that she had bought a teh peng for $1.50, to peals of laughter from the host and fellow podcast guests for her accurate memory.

Alison continued: "And then, after he ordered, he asked me to pay him back, 'Eh, remember to give me the $1.50'."

She added that "more importantly" she had given the man a $2 note and said he could keep the change, which he happily did.

"Then I never went out with him ever again," Alison concluded.

she should post his pic here so that all the bros here scold him for being very cheapo.

he bring shame to mankind

 

[Nevereatrice]

Most women still have old fashioned thinking that men are supposed to pay for her meals and to support her financially

Both genders are the same if she ask money back from me i would not jjww and pay her back

 

[cosmothecat]

And yet alot expect equality in many things involving men and men money. The thinking contradicts, no wonder society going nowhere much. Unless people align their thoughts with their actions.

This is normal too.

Women tends to have double standards. They can expect a lot from you (man) but you cannot expect a lot from them.

If you want to have a GF/wife, just need to give in to their unreasonable expectations.

 

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Most women still have old fashioned thinking that men are supposed to pay for her meals and to support her financially

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/aita-reddit-boyfriend-unemployed-support-b2441052.html

 

[Medicated Oil]

The guy should have returned 50 cents to the lady.

 

[Ethan_]

This is normal too.

Women tends to have double standards. They can expect a lot from you (man) but you cannot expect a lot from them.

If you want to have a GF/wife, just need to give in to their unreasonable expectations.

Not saying all, but think if got observed, alot often the equality tend is about others giving in to them and them accepting it, preferably free perhaps. Taking others generosity for granted. Else if not generous to give free, then is petty.

 

[cosmothecat]

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/aita-reddit-boyfriend-unemployed-support-b2441052.html

Yes, even for AMDK countries also same:

According to the Harvard Business Review, even though getting laid off is a common occurrence, male unemployment is more likely to be stigmatised and frowned upon than female unemployment. Due to societal norms, men are more likely to feel as though they are failures as partners when they lose their jobs.

In the United States, cultural expectations of masculinity have remained traditional. As a result, heterosexual relationships in which the male partner earns far less than their spouse or is unemployed have a higher risk of separation or divorce, according to the American Sociological Association (ASA).

 

[glarerder]

https://www.asiaone.com/lifestyle/s...recounts-date-singaporean-who-wanted-150-back

Taiwanese food YouTuber Alison Wu shared a negative experience she had on her first date with a man, where they had gone to a coffee shop.

"I felt he was very petty, I was shocked at how petty he was," she said.

She added that she had bought a teh peng for $1.50, to peals of laughter from the host and fellow podcast guests for her accurate memory.

Alison continued: "And then, after he ordered, he asked me to pay him back, 'Eh, remember to give me the $1.50'."

She added that "more importantly" she had given the man a $2 note and said he could keep the change, which he happily did.

"Then I never went out with him ever again," Alison concluded.

She thinks he's petty for asking his money back? It was never a treat in the first place. Else he wouldn't ask it back. She has taken it for granted. What's with women calling men names just cos the men want to go on dutch? They're not entitled to the men's money automatically.