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Li Mengzhu (32 years old, business consultant) and Huang Jianjian (39 years old, advertising director) met through a dating app three months ago and established a love relationship. Li Mengzhu believes that using dating software is an efficient way to expand her circle. "Because my life and work circle are small and fixed, I am usually busy with work, and I don't have the energy to participate in offline activities to meet new friends after get off work. Using an app is a more efficient and convenient way. You can swipe during your commute to and from get off work."
When it comes to dating time, the popular ordinary date is just right for the two busy office workers. Ordinary dating means that there is no need to deliberately arrange special programs, but rather to try to integrate dating into one's life. They can go shopping together, go to the gym, assemble furniture, walk cats and dogs, etc., and do small things in life together to suit their respective daily schedules and enjoy them. Time spent with each other. Li Mengzhu said: "Dating is mainly about making yourself comfortable physically and mentally, feeling relaxed and happy. The form is not important. The most important thing is to accompany each other. The two of them stay in the same space, do things they both like to do, watch dramas together, laugh and share happiness, play with pets, go looking for delicious food together, create wonderful experiences and memories together, and experience the simple joys in life after work.”
Regarding the process of falling in love and finding a spouse, Li Mengzhu believes that it is more like an interesting self-exploration. From past experiences and life lessons learned, she constantly explores her own underlying needs and becomes clearer about what kind of partner she wants to find, until finally she finds someone who fits in with and likes. The process is full of ups and downs, and a long-term and healthy relationship requires both parties to constantly adjust and adjust to find a balance between each other's preferences.
https://www.zaobao.com.sg/lifestyle/feature/story20240426-3483427