chongqing gotch guy kena cheated by atb jump bridge now teh girl faces backlash from netizen

[cosmothecat]

Her uncensored face...

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSFEDEBec/

That's with video filter, not real

 

[dontwastetime]

This commentary really very sad
https://v.douyin.com/i2Bqv5Dh/

Explanation of why he so easily tricked
https://v.douyin.com/i2Bq77CS/

 

[cosmothecat]

Single is the best

No such problem

 

[Laneige]

the girl never release any video, its all scammer trying to hook on the wave to earn popularity and money.
the girl only accept a audio call interview where she ignore all main question about money.
the girl keep defending herself and never explain anything the boy sister question and posted.
and got a few people who knew the girl past 2 years show the conversation where this girl is trying to hook on other guy and girl, go to their house sleep, and ask for money. (the girl say she like girl but its more of bi)

the guy is consider 通天带 in china, means his skill is rank top 100
the china 王者 market is stronger and player base larger than our mobile legend.
so to be top 100 is really top notch.

Some people question why so strong not in competitive group, because competitive group need luck + chance + people to bring in, and their earning is depend on win competition (lose means take basic salary) plus stream

This guy is a help people play and can earn much more if hardworking mode, even the competitive player recognize 通天带 and respect them, basically a team of 5 competitive vs 5 通天带 might lose, and even if win its not a easy win. 通天带 is very well respected. they also also top selection if a group want to form a strong player base or hire a replacement. And being 通天带 means they can have a lot of 单 everyday, but normal people everyday only 1 or 2 单 or is 陪玩单 means just play and help the payer, like being support, help him prevent death, give him all buff, protect him, chat with him make him feel good, and tell him how he should play to become better etc.

This guy is young (he died at 21, he knew the girl when he was 19) and he did not have a wonderful family, so he crave for love. he believe in this girl a lot and motive is to get married to start a family, they plan to get married in may, due to may is coming the girl dump him. so he thought he lost everything in life and also he is sick of this life, he think he got nothing else beside play to make money plus his girlfriend (i sort of understand coz i was at this stage before) many ppl keep warn him, but slowly he dont talk much about girlfriend coz ppl will say he got cheated. the girlfriend dont even know his birthday.

ultimately his life is everyday play game, if he hang out more and got few friends and take on few more things, he wont end up this way. (I personally have few friends suicide at 18 to 22 range, at least 4, due to love issue) at this age its very fragile to such thing especially those who crave for love.

when we look at him from 30s 40s point of view or with a wonderful family point of view, he is silly.
but if we look at him with a 20s point of view with not much education and entire life is play game make money crave for love, he is consider loyal and good.

ultimately, i been to china often (and other cities) and met such girl often, it is common, many knew how to avoid them or keep them a distance. most girls i met in fun place, are not naïve, they know best way to earn money, and some of them is earning touching money or body money, to them its money. they have a normal life and they do side income, many told me "i can earn so much i also dont see the point to study, i tutor only earn 50rmb a hour, i let a guy touch while watching movie i earn 500 a hour". so this girl is one of the many.

The guy himself is also naïve and not much social experience. its a fair one willing to beat one willing to get beaten game. his suicide is not really the girl force it, its more of himself seek for it. I dont blame the girl since its a society issue (same with many countries). But since now china and society is on the side of blaming one another which causes low birth rate and fear of married, this become a huge uproar. Many gender seek opportunities to push the blame to another.

Recently one of their famous 媒婆 go around different city to matchmake people on stage also experience things like, girls who is pregnant and find other guy to accept her. girls who is divorce with kids want other guy to accept and earn at least 5k sgd a month. girl who is divorce with kid and dont ask much but guy must at least have BMW. and a girl who is 30s say guys need to open up their eye and see the world, dont cry say girls ask for too much, its guys not hardworking and is useless.

This also become a famous topic uproar for guys to attack girls saying its them who bring down the society.

Many people suicide daily around the world, they can be save, many who really have the intention who suicide doesnt go around telling people or boasting it, they really think and plan for a long time until a trigger point. Sometime its just people around us, do care for friends and family more around, sometime a small chat or a small coffee for them will let them feel there is still hope in life. we dont need attend any religion to believe in god or hope, we can be the ray of light for someone else. Instead of thinking how we can change the world, start with changing people around us one step at a time. I went through counselling for years due to family issue. And recently they called me and ask me go back for it again. Along the way many times I also feel hopeless in life, but its just that moment just nice friends call me and tell me about their daughter their son, then i make a promise and say i will buy toy and see them. I still feel living is tiring, but now i am changing myself to help others in need, because i feel my life can be worthless and useless, but there are much more people living worst and need some small push. I never abandon the suicide thoughts in my life, but i hope i can help more people before the day i decided its my time.

Maybe consider taking some volunteers work
Volunteer yr time than to end it

 

[Nightscapez]

technically china culture now is moving like same trend in singapore.
they are moving from married local to married foreigners.
since local demand more and expect more (sound like somewhere we knew ya, but its all developed country issued when people get educated, they expect and demand more)

Last month there is a matchmaking event in hangzhou, 300 girls and 0 guys turn up, due to most guy knew they wont meet the expectation. I personally last month just went chengdu and shanghai and visit the people park, 70% of the "seeking married" is by girls, mostly demand guy at least 175 as minimum. and as the girl age grow higher, demand lesser, those demand include things like house, car, education, family education and job, insurance, never married before etc. I saw a few 60 years old there just seek insurance and house. Guy demand much lesser thing.

The society issue grow quite deep combine with developed country issue, so married + birthrate is definitely will become more downward trend. Do not forget it combine another issue which is same as singapore, 20 years ago buying a house is much easier, compare to now, where our salary remain largely the same all these years, but everything else grew faster than hamster.

In china, most girl feel divorce+got kids still can get remarried. but most guy just wont take the bite. Just like i told my friend, you girls demand abcdefg, you ask me girl A treat me nice, girl B is rich, girl C is pretty, i choose which one, i choose the young and pretty and nice one. we just dont see the same value in relationship. if a 40 years old girl demand so much from me, why cant i give it to a 20 years old one?

 

[Nightscapez]

Maybe consider taking some volunteers work
Volunteer yr time than to end it

yes actually i was just informed this morning i will lose my job soon since company decided to outsource it.
I already sense it and got the hint months back, now pretty lost although already mentally prepare.
my last few visit with the mps (coz of family issues) they did offer me take up volunteer work (but its more of helping them with politic function), i seek more of helping the blind, disable, or young people with family issue.
Now i am at the stage where should i find next job immediately, or take a small break while doing volunteer work, or look into social service sector with lesser pay for a year or two.
I am quite lost now thats why got time to post this.

Last few days I was watching china tik tok and catch this news, it remind me of my past so i follow it abit more.

 

[orpisia]

Sigh

Why no one never teach or warn him about not going down the rabbit hole

Simp too much

Change girl or what la

 

[Goodshot]

500k rmb enough to go bike forum very long time

 

[sanzhu]

How to play this dumb game t make 96k?

 

[MrAwesomeX]

Don't want to say him but he is really fool. Why end his life for a woman that he has not seen before? Most important, why is this case so famous now? There are many men who are blinded by love, he is not the first one to suicide for a girl.

1st love I think . He lacks experience .

He kena outplayed by the older gf who intentionally get near to him and make advances to KC trap him .

Pretty much a scam at this point .

 

[kevinlaikf]

source: https://www.backchina.com/news/2024/05/06/913052.html

 

[Nightscapez]

500k rmb enough to go bike forum very long time

china more expensive than singapore, in term of sgd, their cost 4-10x more.
i ask before why so ex, apparently in singapore if kena caught just send back china and future no more entry to singapore. but if kena caught in china is jail + family informed. but the good thing is, with that price, the girl standard and age really alot better. but so far money value wise, go vietnam wont go wrong. thailand losing out alot. vietnam and thai internationally you can find their trace worldwide doing special service. thailand these days too commercialize.

i remb last year went taiwan and friend bring me go ktv, the girl told me these days their industry is getting paid lesser and many exit to do other things. cause the thai is taking over. even the japanese and korean visit taiwan to find thais.

 

[MrAwesomeX]

Don't want to say him but he is really fool. Why end his life for a woman that he has not seen before? Most important, why is this case so famous now? There are many men who are blinded by love, he is not the first one to suicide for a girl.

Only a true bbfa can understand his feelings .

R.I.P

 

[tazzycorner]

sad story

for some girls, no matter how much money (or life) u give, it will never be enough if they don't really like you in the first place

the moment after u have given your money or gift, it would have been forgotten

hope more simps wake up

 

[Taloona]

He didn’t play competition, he played with or played for rich people, levelled up their account and earned money. That’s why you keep seeing the term 接单，means those jobs require him to play with or play for the person in exchange of money. To earn such an amount, he must be really good, coz he needs to keep on winning.

I don't understand the gaming world. Why would someone hire a gamer to play on his behalf? What does he benefit?

 

[tazzycorner]

I don't understand the gaming world. Why would someone hire a gamer to play on his behalf? What does he benefit?

ego

climb rank

sometimes, if a game is clan base, might need better ranking to improve clan rating as well

 

[MrAwesomeX]

sometimes stay as bbfa is better

Precisely he bbfa no experience hence kena KCed

 

[MrAwesomeX]

I think both Tiongland and TW media can't be trust. One is controlled by their govt so can only report what they told, the other is totally no control, will report what they think

TW is more exaggerated but there's truth to it , china is 100% propaganda .

Edmw also say what you think ma .

Unless it's taboo topics like sex , race , certain religion .

Politics still okay .

 

[titusilvering]

Aiya. Now visa free for prc. Ask atb come here 闭风头。bbfa will take good care of her

 

[iicecube]

Early better than too late.
Learned from a real man when you still a boy.

Died = stupidity