How do you deal with FAKE relatives during CNY

[Banana?]

Ask them to talk to the hand

 

[archie7]

U how old?
Still take Ang pow

 

[Notbbfa]

So what did they serve

Don't be lazy, click back and re-read the original post.

 

[Coaster]

Talk about food, travel, movies, etc...

 

[Notbbfa]

moi ish hoping this cny no gathering... then no need to deal riaoz...

ownself declare also can

 

[Whirling_Dervish]

I've been dealing with intrusive questions and microaggressions from my relatives during all extended family gatherings since primary school, so I have learnt to cope.

Just got to smile, don't pay heed to their words, and enjoy the bak kwa and pineapple tarts

 

[Emperor_Hippo]

The outside world is cruel. Family and extended family is suppose to be help each other when faced with the outside world and not one up against each other. If this break down you will be alone in the world.

SUPPOSED TO?!

Except for your own parents, you want your non-direct blood relatives to give you that level of support similar to what they would do for their own direct bloodlines?

I think there's a limit to naivety. History had consistently shown and demonstrated over and over again that even blood cousins would not hesitate to kill each other.

 

[TapInTapOut]

SUPPOSED TO?!

Except for your own parents, you want your non-direct blood relatives to give you that level of support similar to what they would do for their own direct bloodlines?

I think there's a limit to naivety. History had consistently shown and demonstrated over and over again that even blood cousins would not hesitate to kill each other.

Ya. Some people just don't dare to admit that not every family member or relative is a healthy or supportive one.

To them, related by blood = everything automatically must support and maintain relationship no matter what, regardless of the other personality or behavior or agenda.

 

[toolbox03]

Set entrance fee

want to visit need to pay entrance fee

 

[Emperor_Hippo]

Ya. Some people just don't dare to admit that not every family member or relative is a healthy or supportive one.

To them, related by blood = everything automatically must support and maintain relationship no matter what, regardless of the other personality or behavior or agenda.

This is friggin' epic bullsheet.

I wouldn't wanna tar every family with the same brush, but all govt needs to do is to implement another HMPV Lockdown similar to COVID SEE BEE lockdown.

Except make it 1yr.

Before lockdown, people will be harping, "家有一老如有一宝！I got big big family under 1 roof, we all supportive and naise towards each other! I lub moi family deep deep."

During lockdown, "他妈的 DIAM DIAM LAH!!!!! 吵死人啦！！！！！！！！！"

Oh wait. Didn't that already happen during COVID when the ultimate ugly side of "big family under 1 roof" actually showed their colours?

 

[wulu1_69]

I just go to work during cny so can siam visiting legally

 

[CHINAUSA]

No need look far, just see our Lee family relationship good meh. lol

HMPV lock down quick. save all the trouble from these loud gawdy festival

 

[daveteo88]

I just go to work during cny so can siam visiting legally

Only policeman, fireman, nurse, Macd and other fast food need to work.

 

[daveteo88]

No need look far, just see our Lee family relationship good meh. lol

HMPV lock down quick. save all the trouble from these loud gawdy festival

Look at Lee family is look far. Want to look near, just look at the screen and read edmw. Almost every one here hate meeting relative.

 

[mickey88]

Just smile and smile whatever crap they toking

 

[mickey88]

Only policeman, fireman, nurse, Macd and other fast food need to work.

Smrt and taxi driver

 

[SkyNinja]

If you student, they will ask you now study where. Oh this xxx school, oh this xxx uni. Then starts to compare.

If you working they will ask u which company. Oh this MNC ah this SME....... Then compare the job benefits

 

[SkyNinja]

SUPPOSED TO?!

Except for your own parents, you want your non-direct blood relatives to give you that level of support similar to what they would do for their own direct bloodlines?

I think there's a limit to naivety. History had consistently shown and demonstrated over and over again that even blood cousins would not hesitate to kill each other.

Bro. Thousands of years of History has shown that Chinese is more prone to backstabbing and wars.

 

[SkyNinja]

purposely exagerrate to make them jelly.

for example, if u promote salary increment become 8k, u tell them 9.3k

Round up to 10k is nicer

 

[coyote]

FAKE and SUPERFICAL.. share tots leh

Just say happy new year...