i do encounter women stealing glances at me. one was a lady in a spare part shop. for many years, she will always look at me either when i enter or leave. but i never spoke to her before. there are quite a few attractive girls in sales, but i feel paiseh to make any move because i need to buy things through them. sometimes i don't need anything for a long time, and when i call them, they say so long never come in a happy tone. that's when i know she recognizes me by my voice, which is heart warming. these are all ladies in their 30s-40s. older ones usually behave like a man and talking to them is usually boring if lucky or unpleasant. older women are seldom happy and rarely smile