Kaylin vs PiscesGirl - who is more popular in EDMW?

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This one what to call him during CNY?
祖先 ah?

 

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True in past she has been hurt by one before after that She slowly can see people well

She said another sign of zha nan they will push all the blame to their parnter too and bad mouth someone in national TV for personal gain not telling the truth half truth


Or want to have xiaosan higher level is claim my wife not good to be bla bla bla my wife is crazy so xiaosan pity him than start datting him

And if guy never let you meet his friend he is only toying you not serious kind

You should be proud of your witch buddy.

She is learning more about agency (psychology) and having an internal locus of control. 😌

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/.../agency-and-structure-within-us-and-around-us

Agency and Structure Within Us and Around Us​

We can't improve structure without improving the agency.

Key points​

  • In human endeavor, there is a continual tension between structure (laws, rules, norms) and individual agency.
  • The structure-agency tension plays out on all levels of human interactions, including love relationships.
  • Love partners focus too much on agency and not enough on structure.

Derived from sociology, the concept of structure refers to influences and constraints on individual behavior. Elements of social structure include laws, policies, organizations, social categories (economics, race, gender, religion), prevalence of crime, sickness, health care, and quality education, as well as cultural norms of expected social behavior.

Agency refers to individual rights, responsibilities, and autonomy (control over one’s thoughts, feelings, and actions).

The structure-agency tension plays out on all levels of human interactions, including love relationships. It’s a useful lens for analyzing relationships, society, and politics.

Structure in Love Relationships​


We’re not consciously aware of the structure that guides and constrains our behavior within love relationships. Nevertheless, love relationships feature tacit rules and norms to which partners expect adherence. Research suggests several norms that are optimal for committed relationships:

  • Egalitarian
  • Cooperative
  • Supportive and protective
  • Flexible
  • Tolerance of differences.

Egalitarian: the rights, privileges, and preferences of partners are equal, with neither holding power nor authority over the other.

Cooperative: partners contribute to the well-being of the family according to talents, skills, and personal resources. Historically, division of labor, control of family resources, and assumption of responsibilities were determined by gender roles. In our times, partners must negotiate about them fairly for relationships to thrive.


Supportive and protective: partners help each other and protect each other’s well-being.

Flexible: partners are open to changes in behavior.

Tolerance of differences: partners accept that they have different family histories, life experiences, coping habits, and, most likely, different temperaments, emotional vulnerabilities, and cultural norms.

Rate the structure of your relationship by answering true or false to the following. My relationship is:

Egalitarian ___

Cooperative ___

Flexible ___

Supportive and protective ___

Tolerant of differences ___

*All answers should be true.


Agency in Love Relationships​

This is what we know about the healthiest expression of agency within relationship structure:

  • Partners accept personal responsibility for their behavior and contribute to the well-being of the family.
  • Partners self-regulate: calm themselves when upset and strive to improve problematic situations rather than blame, punish, or try to avoid problems or each other.
Rate agency within your relationship by answering true or false to the following:

I accept personal responsibility ___

My partner accepts personal responsibility __

My partner thinks I accept personal responsibility __

I self-regulate__

My partner self-regulates__

My partner thinks I self-regulate.

*All answers should be true.

 
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Is it true that women tend to select spouse based on chemistry? And neglect other aspects such as spirituality, values, money, forebearance?


This is what they think, based on pheromones.... but reality is lasting marriage is totally off from chemistry or love at first sight
 

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hello 秦汉 still alive, simi 祖先. he only 79 yrs old nia 😌
qin han young pic looks more decent than the kpop guy u like.

those current kpop guy, they way the modify their face, and put on make up, makes them look so weird and effiminate and unnatural.

but seems like current gen of girls like that look
 
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qin han young pic looks more decent than the kpop guy u like.

those current kpop guy, they way the modify their face, and put on make up, makes them look so weird and effiminate.

but seems like current gen of girls like that look
putting u on ignore nao!!!

just kidding 😄
 

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before u do. need to tell u, I look like Song Joong Ki

Soong Joon-ki's latest movie Bogota flopped, only 400k people bought tickets during its theatre release and failed to break-even (needed 3 million viewers).

This was his 3rd consecutive movie flop. He cry during interview and blamed the film industry also no use.

Koreans are boycotting this scumbag after what did to his ex wife Song Hye-Kyo, manufacturing one sided stories and blaming her for the breakdown in their marriage, and tried to destroy her career. This 渣男 deserves all the retribution he can get.

https://gulfnews.com/entertainment/...failure-i-worked-harder-than-ever-1.500017747

Released on December 31, 2024, Bogotá: City of the Lost has struggled at the box office, attracting approximately 400,000 viewers as of January 15, far short of its break-even point of 3 million.

This marks Joong-Ki's third consecutive box office disappointment, following Hopeless in 2023 and My Name Is Loh Kiwan.

https://mydramalist.com/article/song-joong-ki-tears-up-over-box-office-failure-of-bogota

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Song Joong Ki shared, "As Lee Sung Min sunbae said, currently, Korean cinema is going through a tough time. Honestly, I'm just grateful that my movie is even being screened in theaters presently. Because it has become so challenging for Korean films to secure theater showings, I've been putting more effort than ever into promoting this movie. I wanted to spread the word and present it in the best light possible."

He continued, "Even if I get criticized, I wanted to try, even if it's not enough, to improve this situation [our movie is in]. Still, I want to express my gratitude to everyone who came to watch our movie." "The film industry is in a tough spot right now, but the job of actors is to create good content that comforts and entertains the audience. I'll dedicate myself to creating good works and be a source of strength to viewers."

Song Joong Ki became emotional, saying, "As I talk, I keep getting emotional," and added, "Thank you so much," as he shed tears.
 

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Soong Joon-ki's latest movie Bogota flopped, only 400k people bought tickets during its theatre release and failed to break-even (needed 3 million viewers).

This was his 3rd consecutive movie flop. He cry during interview and blamed the film industry also no use.

Koreans are boycotting this scumbag after what did to his ex wife Song Hye-Kyo, manufacturing one sided stories and blaming her for the breakdown in their marriage, and tried to destroy her career. This 渣男 deserves all the retribution he can get.

https://gulfnews.com/entertainment/...failure-i-worked-harder-than-ever-1.500017747

Released on December 31, 2024, Bogotá: City of the Lost has struggled at the box office, attracting approximately 400,000 viewers as of January 15, far short of its break-even point of 3 million.

This marks Joong-Ki's third consecutive box office disappointment, following Hopeless in 2023 and My Name Is Loh Kiwan.

https://mydramalist.com/article/song-joong-ki-tears-up-over-box-office-failure-of-bogota

DkJpN2_2f.png


Song Joong Ki shared, "As Lee Sung Min sunbae said, currently, Korean cinema is going through a tough time. Honestly, I'm just grateful that my movie is even being screened in theaters presently. Because it has become so challenging for Korean films to secure theater showings, I've been putting more effort than ever into promoting this movie. I wanted to spread the word and present it in the best light possible."

He continued, "Even if I get criticized, I wanted to try, even if it's not enough, to improve this situation [our movie is in]. Still, I want to express my gratitude to everyone who came to watch our movie." "The film industry is in a tough spot right now, but the job of actors is to create good content that comforts and entertains the audience. I'll dedicate myself to creating good works and be a source of strength to viewers."

Song Joong Ki became emotional, saying, "As I talk, I keep getting emotional," and added, "Thank you so much," as he shed tears.
heng i lied about looking like Song Joong ki

so what actually happened between him and his wife?
 

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Soong Joon-ki's latest movie Bogota flopped, only 400k people bought tickets during its theatre release and failed to break-even (needed 3 million viewers).

This was his 3rd consecutive movie flop. He cry during interview and blamed the film industry also no use.

Koreans are boycotting this scumbag after what did to his ex wife Song Hye-Kyo, manufacturing one sided stories and blaming her for the breakdown in their marriage, and tried to destroy her career. This 渣男 deserves all the retribution he can get.

https://gulfnews.com/entertainment/...failure-i-worked-harder-than-ever-1.500017747

Released on December 31, 2024, Bogotá: City of the Lost has struggled at the box office, attracting approximately 400,000 viewers as of January 15, far short of its break-even point of 3 million.

This marks Joong-Ki's third consecutive box office disappointment, following Hopeless in 2023 and My Name Is Loh Kiwan.

https://mydramalist.com/article/song-joong-ki-tears-up-over-box-office-failure-of-bogota

DkJpN2_2f.png


Song Joong Ki shared, "As Lee Sung Min sunbae said, currently, Korean cinema is going through a tough time. Honestly, I'm just grateful that my movie is even being screened in theaters presently. Because it has become so challenging for Korean films to secure theater showings, I've been putting more effort than ever into promoting this movie. I wanted to spread the word and present it in the best light possible."

He continued, "Even if I get criticized, I wanted to try, even if it's not enough, to improve this situation [our movie is in]. Still, I want to express my gratitude to everyone who came to watch our movie." "The film industry is in a tough spot right now, but the job of actors is to create good content that comforts and entertains the audience. I'll dedicate myself to creating good works and be a source of strength to viewers."

Song Joong Ki became emotional, saying, "As I talk, I keep getting emotional," and added, "Thank you so much," as he shed tears.
so what actually happned between him and his wife.
 
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