hi everyone, i asked about my marriage which is not going well. separated currently. then i got lot 34.
then i ask GYM if i should move on. then is lot 55.
seems like both qian are quite good. so not sure if i want to wait longer in the marriage or move on. i wonder if anyone can help me decipher in more detail please? thank you.
cos the meanings i can find online. but i wonder how to apply to the situation...
thank you
Hi..
Online description often are not applicable or aka not accurate as its very generic.
For your question, there is a better or more appropriate ways of asking GYM for advice.
First, for your situation, you have to decide if you want to save your marriage and cannot leave to GYM to decide for you.
Once you have decided, lets say you do not wish to save your marriage, you can no need ask already and just go with the flow.
If you wish to save your marriage, you can follow the below steps:
1. Inform GYM of your details like name, DOB, address.
2. Tell GYM your situation (also report your wife name) and tell GYM that you wish to save your marriage so hope to get some advice to turn the situation around.
3. Go to the corner and have a seat and wait for about 15 to 20 mins.
4. after waiting, collect the sheng bei and lot tin from the counter and proceed to the praying area
5. first question, you ask Gym if your marriage still got chance to save ?
If yes, please give you 1 sheng bei.
If you get sheng bei, you go to point 6.
6. Ask Gym to give you lot to advice what you can do to save your marriage and start shaking the tin. For steps on how to draw lot,
please refer to the draw lot SOP at the first post of this thread
After drawing lots following the SOP, can thank GYM and note down the lot sequence and let us know the results will do.
If you did not get sheng bei for point 5, it mean its already at the point that hard to change the situation already.
Any part not sure can always check with us.