<straits times>Inside the minds of Singaporean ‘incels’ who blame women and society

[TiedInsurer]

People without sex suffer just as hungry people suffer. An absence of quality human relationships is devastating for mental health - it's the best predictor for both drug abuse and for suicide. Unlike income, sex cannot trivially be "redistributed" by the state (as with social skills, relationship quality or cultural fit). Like income, it's a clear marker for social exclusion and a broad nexus of human suffering.

Can more or less confirm. I'm willing to bet good money that more then 50% of sex crime offenders are literal incels as well, and the incel craziness causes them to offend.

There's really no good way to resolve this though. Based on my anecdotal experience, prostitutes doesn't cure incelness, so mere sex without feelings won't resolve the problem. You need a real girlfriend to cure it, but you can't just allocate real girlfriends to incels to cure them.

 

[blurpandasg2014]

It’s not abt incel or not.

Woman want everything that benefit them. Want freedom to choose, want fairness at workplace but when come to splitting the bills, man have to pay. When comes to anything that do not benefit them such as NS, it’s not their problem and blame it on being male

who’s fault u tell me

 

[SayPorkGuy]

We are not even paid that well for our sacrifices. Sex is actually a lot like income in more ways than recognized in this article - an observation that in no way credits the "incel" perspective or their community dynamics. Our social status, class, material wealth, our material incomes, the quality of our relationships and the ease with which we form new human relationships (sexual or otherwise) are all highly correlated with one another. These advantages reinforce one another, and they are also supported by high education, refined social skills, affinity with the dominant culture, great parental upbringing and genetic luck. People that are socially excluded (misfits - whatever the background factors), are often excluded from all of the above - no chance of a loving partner, no chance of a good job and no chance of sex (which is a human need - with hormonal impulses similar to hunger for food).

People without sex suffer just as hungry people suffer. An absence of quality human relationships is devastating for mental health - it's the best predictor for both drug abuse and for suicide. Unlike income, sex cannot trivially be "redistributed" by the state (as with social skills, relationship quality or cultural fit). Like income, it's a clear marker for social exclusion and a broad nexus of human suffering.

they exist cos a highly sexed society created them. sex is marketed as the end all be all, greatest drug alive. if sex isn't portrayed this way, they would just be monks. chu have all been deceived and distracted by the top and gaslighted to be helpless sorrowful lil whelps.

 

[elmohootbigbird]

blame all they want lo. we will see how the society continue to deteriorate lo. see when it all comes down.

 

[blurpandasg2014]

Lol its never a woman's fault. Never, ever. And that is how i avoid getting pwned by wc.

Ya lo they forever right so someone has to always be the wrong and the one who is being oppressed

 

[BlackWing1977]

i have experience seeing people report to cmpb in dresses. so yes, queers still need to serve. however having the singlet really means nothing........

The only one reason they can get exempted from serving is full on sexual reassignment surgery together with change of gender on IC... that one they will give exemption, of course also required psychologist letter to prove he is of a female gender psychologically.

Or the other way round, female turn male, then since gender is male on IC have to get exemption from NS also. Heard stories from senior before got one of this case, went with girlfriend to collect exemption slip.. and the staff read out the reasoning.. the girlfriend chua tio... did not know the boyfriend used to be female.

 

[Prime 13]

The other side that pple neglect to said ish therising problem of femcels.

Femcels are females who
1. cannot get the man they desire and think they are entitled to. This includes women who are in relationship or merried but not to the man of their fantasies
2. are living below the life they think they are entitled to
3. blames society and men for their state and makes narrative women are bullied and oppressed

Ends up these women become bitter and toxic and do harmful to society.

In fact chiu hab probably noticed their rising lumbers.
Just that they are not called femcels, they manifest as karens

Lolz.

 

[noname2016]

Haha all incels over 25 y.o. should be given annual tax rebates, $100k and a BTO flat, as long as they commit to get married within 24 months. Any unmarried Sg girl they propose to must give a legit reason why she won't accept him, reason will be reviewed for legitness by a committee of 12 incels, if review not successful, she must get married within 12 months. Incel problem solved

Hmm… Will any guys want to willingly identify themselves as an incel to be eligible for this scheme? After all I already see many people getting offended at the word. How to match the unmarried sg girl to the incel? What if the girl is willing but the incel reject the girl assigned to him cus not chio?

 

[xdivider]

The other side that pple neglect to said ish therising problem of femcels.

Femcels are females who
1. cannot get the man they desire and think they are entitled to. This includes women who are in relationship or merried but not to the man of their fantasies
2. are living below the life they think they are entitled to
3. blames society and men for their state and makes narrative women are bullied and oppressed

Ends up these women become bitter and toxic and do harmful to society.

In fact chiu hab probably noticed their rising lumbers.
Just that they are not called femcels, they manifest as karens

Lolz.

and they join aware........

 

[noname2016]

Can more or less confirm. I'm willing to bet good money that more then 50% of sex crime offenders are literal incels as well, and the incel craziness causes them to offend.

There's really no good way to resolve this though. Based on my anecdotal experience, prostitutes doesn't cure incelness, so mere sex without feelings won't resolve the problem. You need a real girlfriend to cure it, but you can't just allocate real girlfriends to incels to cure them.

So there’s no solution to incels on the sex issue?
I saw someone suggesting the below, which I thought sounded possible.
“Since local women wont marry these incels, then just allow them to find foreign wives. We should just make it far easier for them marry them. Easier long term visit pass renewals, shorter route to citizenship. Provide subsidies to foreign bride agencies. Promote group buy to lower costs.”
But they still need to take the first step though.

 

[zeozoe]

Hmm… Will any guys want to willingly identify themselves as an incel to be eligible for this scheme? After all I already see many people getting offended at the word. How to match the unmarried sg girl to the incel? What if the girl is willing but the incel reject the girl assigned to him cus not chio?

Ask the 'incel' to propose lorh... he is the one choosing mah

 

[LoaGong12]

The other side that pple neglect to said ish therising problem of femcels.

Femcels are females who
1. cannot get the man they desire and think they are entitled to. This includes women who are in relationship or merried but not to the man of their fantasies
2. are living below the life they think they are entitled to
3. blames society and men for their state and makes narrative women are bullied and oppressed

Ends up these women become bitter and toxic and do harmful to society.

In fact chiu hab probably noticed their rising lumbers.
Just that they are not called femcels, they manifest as karens

Lolz.

these are way more common than incels from my observation.

 

[CaptchaCheebeh]

Simple, there is a political price no political party in sg is willing to pay.

EDMW should band together and form a men's rights party and stand for future elections

 

[CaptchaCheebeh]

i still dont understand why women cannot serve the admin role for NS. Medic, HR all these can get women to serve.

Excellent point. The answer is they absolutely can. They can even serve in combat roles, as evidenced by Israel's conscription methodology.

The truth is PAP simply CHOOSES to unfairly favor women over men. Vote wisely

 

[qhong61]

Lawrence wong mentioned abt incels yesterday.
Realised some of the guys here are like that.

 

[Nuclear Boy]

Lawrence wong mentioned abt incels yesterday.
Realised some of the guys here are like that.

If by 'here' you meant EDMW, 'some' would be a huge understatement.

 

[kreja]

Whats incel?

 

[Nuclear Boy]

Whats incel?

Someone who's very into Excel spreadsheets.

 

[focus1974]

https://www.straitstimes.com/life/i...e-minds-of-incels-who-blame-women-and-society

The main laments in Singapore tend to be about how national service favours women while disadvantaging men, taking up their best years, as well as charges that Singapore women today are the “privileged gender”, thanks to the Women’s Charter

then female complain abt sinkie male and society can?
this is the woke culture.. put a stop to it.

ranting about the opposite site and society does not make you an incel.
and if you want to call it that, then do a research with both gender in it.
how many times have we seen tiktok, instagram with female ranting abt male and society. very often.