Does any man here feels tired?

[glarerder]

Please. What society “expects” men to provide is still far less than what women are traditionally expected to live up to.

After work, a lot of twits just expect to be fed, pa games, surf web and be able to engage in coitus on demand.

You're right. That's why men should stop chasing and dating. We should focus on ourselves, both men and women, so we won't be tied down by the so called values and expectations. Staying single is the way to go forward.

 

[Dinoboyboy]

Heng for me, its peepur get tired of me more than i tired of them.

 

[boyinhersense]

You're right. That's why men should stop chasing and dating. We should focus on ourselves, both men and women, so we won't be tied down by the so called values and expectations. Staying single is the way to go forward.

Lol. You imply it’s a big loss to women that men stop dating and chasing.

Enlightened people with reasonable expectations to a relationship will continue to come together and flourish.

Those men who hold outdated ideals will be bbfas or have to go buy themselves a maid/sex-partner from a developing country.

 

[glarerder]

Lol. You imply it’s a big loss to women that men stop dating and chasing.

Enlightened people with reasonable expectations to a relationship will continue to come together and flourish.

Those men who hold outdated ideals will be bbfas or have to go buy themselves a maid/sex-partner from a developing country.

No I'm not. It's not a big loss to women. It's a big gain for men to stop dating actually. We don't have to be subjected to the marital law when we're single. It's also a big gain for women. They don't have to risk getting subjected to the expectation of being a wife if they stay single. It's a win win.

 

[boyinhersense]

No I'm not. It's not a big loss to women. It's a big gain for men to stop dating actually. We don't have to be subjected to the marital law when we're single. It's also a big gain for women. They don't have to risk getting subjected to the expectation of being a wife if they stay single. It's a win win.

it’s a big gain for edmw bbfas for sure

 

[gwbasic]

Those men who hold outdated ideals will be bbfas or have to go buy themselves a maid/sex-partner from a developing country.

Hannor hannor, not every man can be ian fang piak underaged xmm give std!

 

[glarerder]

it’s a big gain for edmw bbfas for sure

It's a big gain for everyone to stay single. Don't get into a marriage and complain about it. Rather, one can choose to stay out of marriage and be grateful about it.

 

[Laguna123]

And man suppose to be strong mentally and physically to provide emotional support to his wife/family.
All the sadness got to keep it to himself and act as nothing can bother him.

 

[boyinhersense]

Hannor hannor, not every man can be ian fang piak underaged xmm give std!

si

It's a big gain for everyone to stay single. Don't get into a marriage and complain about it. Rather, one can choose to stay out of marriage and be grateful about it.

lol. Yes I know your anti-marriage and anti-natalist stance from long ago. As I also pointed out, misery loves company so you just like more people to adopt your thinking.

 

[glarerder]

And man suppose to be strong mentally and physically to provide emotional support to his wife/family.
All the sadness got to keep it to himself and act as nothing can bother him.

Once the man shows any sign of weakness, his woman loses attraction for him and, she leaving him is only a matter of time if he doesn't pick himself up. These standards should apply to both men and women. We men should learn to protect ourselves better and not just pick any low value woman just cos we have higher earning power than them. We are signing ourselves up to be legally mandated atm.

 

[glarerder]

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lol. Yes I know your anti-marriage and anti-natalist stance from long ago. As I also pointed out, misery loves company so you just like more people to adopt your thinking.

Misery loves company when one shouts how wonderful marriage is when they themselves are in unhappy marriages. Didn't you share about how women are subjected to more expectations than men? And yet still encourages more to get into one? Misery loves company indeed.

 

[boyinhersense]

Misery loves company when one shouts how wonderful marriage is when they themselves are in unhappy marriages. Didn't you share about how women are subjected to more expectations than men? And yet still encourages more to get into one? Misery loves company indeed.

Being in an unhappy marriage gives one the right to speak out against it.

Still, being single or marriage is an intensely personal decision, sometimes an involuntary one.

Yet you are constantly evangelizing for singlehood, extolling its benefits. Where there is an agenda, there is a motive.

Human nature is ugly. When one cannot find joy within, they need to rely on finding happiness by comparing against others. The more happily married families appear to be out there, the more miserable the singles feel (FOMO). The only way for singles to feel better is if everyone else is also single. Yes, I think you are miserable

 

[glarerder]

Being in an unhappy marriage gives one the right to speak out against it.

Still, being single or marriage is an intensely personal decision, sometimes an involuntary one.

Yet you are constantly evangelizing for singlehood, extolling its benefits. Where there is an agenda, there is a motive.

Human nature is ugly. When one cannot find joy within, they need to rely on finding happiness by comparing against others. The more happily married families appear to be out there, the more miserable the singles feel (FOMO). The only way for singles to feel better is if everyone else is also single. Yes, I think you are miserable

I don't evangelise anything other than simply providing an alternative view. If people want to enter marriage, then they shouldn't complain about it. They should work it out. Complaining makes things worse. It's like people not doing anything about it except to voice out how others are not doing how they prefer things to be done. You don't have to face that kind of issue by staying single. It's an alternative view.

When you enjoy something and you share about it is different from when you don't enjoy something and ask people to join you. People who doesn't enjoy marriage and yet encourages others to get married is then what's called misery loves company. That's what you call an ugly human nature.

 

[boyinhersense]

I don't evangelise anything other than simply providing an alternative view. If people want to enter marriage, then they shouldn't complain about it. They should work it out. Complaining makes things worse. It's like people not doing anything about it except to voice out how others are not doing how they prefer things to be done. You don't have to face that kind of issue by staying single. It's an alternative view.

When you enjoy something and you share about it is different from when you don't enjoy something and ask people to join you. People who doesn't enjoy marriage and yet encourages others to get married is then what's called misery loves company.

I don’t know know anyone here who actively promotes marriage or having kids.

Complaining is normal.

There are a few like yourself who actively discourages marriage and promotes singlehood….brings me back to my point about agenda and motive.

Anyway, I need to get ready for work. You can go on justifying why you need to keep “sharing” your alternative point of view.

 

[glarerder]

I don’t know know anyone here who actively promotes marriage or having kids.

Complaining is normal.

There are a few like yourself who actively discourages marriage and promotes singlehood….brings me back to my point about agenda and motive.

Anyway, I need to get ready for work. You can go on justifying why you need to keep “sharing” your alternative point of view.

You clearly forgot about @coyote

Complaining is not normal. It makes one feel miserable. You're justifying what's making one unhappy as being normal. You can carry on doing that and encouraging people to join you. Misery loves company indeed.

 

[boyinhersense]

You clearly forgot about @coyote

Complaining is not normal. It makes one feel miserable. You're justifying what's making one unhappy as being normal. You can carry on doing that and encouraging people to join you. Misery loves company indeed.

I must have touched a raw nerve eh to have you try to project something on me?

When did I complain about my marriage? I’m as content as a bird. I’m far from miserable.

Why do I need to justify people state of mind? Which unhappily married edmw fellow keep complaining about his marriage or family? i can’t recall.

Be single, get married, stay married or divorce. It’s all personal. I question why people shill for singlehood. My conclusion: miserable both in spirit and human qualities. happy to repost

Where there is an agenda, there is a motive.

Human nature is ugly. When one cannot find joy within, they need to rely on finding happiness by comparing against others. The more happily married families appear to be out there, the more miserable the singles feel (FOMO). The only way for singles to feel better is if everyone else is also single. Yes, I think you are miserable

 

[glarerder]

I must have touched a raw nerve eh to have you try to project something on me?

When did I complain about my marriage? I’m as content as a bird. I’m far from miserable.

Why do I need to justify people state of mind? Which unhappily married edmw fellow keep complaining about his marriage or family? i can’t recall.

Be single, get married, stay married or divorce. It’s all personal. I question why people shill for singlehood. My conclusion: miserable both in spirit and human qualities. happy to repost

You specifically mentioned about me and a few other edmwers, giving people labels. Pot calling kettle black. Here I am sharing alternative views and even suggesting both gender to stay single after you said women are expected a lot more from than men. That is not complaining? Just stay single then no more expectation. That is better than saying hey women are expected to do more than men. Seems like I have touched your raw nerve.

 

[seeseelooklook]

As I grow from a boy to become a man, I just realised it is tough being a man. Woman and children expect you to provide. Country expect you to protect. It seems like everything you do is not for yourself, but for everybody else. Not gonna lie, I honestly am tired.

Heng I went for sex change already. Now look like BP Lisa

 

[RichardXyn]

Tommy Page sang "Life is full of lots of up and downs .... and there is nothing more painful than to let your feelings take you down".

 

[harbinger255]

You clearly forgot about @coyote

Complaining is not normal. It makes one feel miserable. You're justifying what's making one unhappy as being normal. You can carry on doing that and encouraging people to join you. Misery loves company indeed.

Seriously....

Misery loves company when one shouts how wonderful marriage is when they themselves are in unhappy marriages. Didn't you share about how women are subjected to more expectations than men? And yet still encourages more to get into one? Misery loves company indeed.

You obviously dunno and can't rbr what you are babbling yourself. Try to be consistent as least?