IAmChiobu12M
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In life we are always told that we need to have variations and cannot be too narrow minded.
Yet when comes to romantic relationship/marriage, we suddenly have to be loyal to one (some even believe till death do us part)
And it seems like this idea is very shocking to many.
In reality, even work alone, you have different coworkers for different functions. Personal life, you have different passion, or friends too.
A simple example, you won't expect your hairstylist to be able to be your fitness instructor, your beautician to be a doctor to give you mc when you sick.
Yet when suddenly when you are with someone, this person has to commit to you fully, emotionally, mentally, physically, financially etc.
Suddenly both of your life has to come together as one.
Not finding excuses for men to cheat. But as a female I too think is impossible to only have 1 person. And in before, people will say stay with one, not suitable break properly then move on. Not wrong. But just curious and let's discuss.
Same for work, you won't expect your boss to only groom you alone right? So long he's giving you good enough to continue your career you will not care how he treat other people right? Or as a boss, you also won't expect your employee only commit to your project and give you 100% forever right?
In before very transactional. But since when life is about relationships, and how many times relationship ends well?
Yet when comes to romantic relationship/marriage, we suddenly have to be loyal to one (some even believe till death do us part)
And it seems like this idea is very shocking to many.
In reality, even work alone, you have different coworkers for different functions. Personal life, you have different passion, or friends too.
A simple example, you won't expect your hairstylist to be able to be your fitness instructor, your beautician to be a doctor to give you mc when you sick.
Yet when suddenly when you are with someone, this person has to commit to you fully, emotionally, mentally, physically, financially etc.
Suddenly both of your life has to come together as one.
Not finding excuses for men to cheat. But as a female I too think is impossible to only have 1 person. And in before, people will say stay with one, not suitable break properly then move on. Not wrong. But just curious and let's discuss.
Same for work, you won't expect your boss to only groom you alone right? So long he's giving you good enough to continue your career you will not care how he treat other people right? Or as a boss, you also won't expect your employee only commit to your project and give you 100% forever right?
In before very transactional. But since when life is about relationships, and how many times relationship ends well?
