Are you attracted to your wifey first time you met her?

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For me is no. First time met her find her very auntie looking. Chop chop eat finish dump her and go home myself. But as times goes by find her more and more attractive. What about you guys? 🤔
Was love at first sight. Reminds me of my first love. But then found out she bit mental so didn't pursue her. Years later she seduced me. And rest was history. 😭😮💨🫠
 

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I recall mine was neutral but wife had bad impression of me during first meetup. We were colleagues from diff dept but kenna arrowed to do eca,cca stuffs. Felt I was stuck up.
 

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情人眼里出西施. Its the feelings. Think many, if not most people the one they settled down with wasn't the most attractive in term of looks. But overall tend give them a good feeling bah.
 

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Yes. Thought she was very unreachable and never thought she’d be mine one day.
 

MoeLanYong

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Yes, very attracted. I first saw her in a lecture theatre. My buddy noticed her first. She was always searching for a seat at the front row. My buddy called her "the look". Because she was very pretty and stood out.

I started looking out for "the look" every day. She was very pretty indeed. Slim. Big eyes, piercing when look at you. Face like model. Sharp, elegant and classy. Not the cherubic cute face kind. She always had make-up on. Very womanly behaviour, unlike the other female students.

When I went for computer lessons, to my pleasant surprise, "the look" sat besides me. I struck lottery! It turned out her surname was very close to mine. Hence she was sat next to me.

I perspired like mad during computer lessons. Bec she was so damn hot. Kept wiping my sweat with my handkerchief. So embarrassed. She remembered me as the funny guy that kept wiping his sweat.

Soon i got to know "the look". Her bimbo persona drew me in. Always blur. Very womanly. Chatty. Unopinionated. The kind I like. I met her along the corridors often. She always had something to talk to me each time, e.g. told me she did not understand the lecture, asked me if I did. She was more keen to talk to me, than I was to her.

When we had time, we would talk longer. I called her at her hostel, we would talk for 2-3hrs each time. Till today, after marrying her for 25 years, we still have endless things to talk to each other.
 
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tfkmueh

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Was neutral, but some1 informed me that she was interested in me and I am those that will not pass on opportunity when it is offered or come to me. So why not go on dates with her.

Find out as we go out more that I felt comfortable and good. So become more serious and subsequently long term partner.

She even told me later on that during our beginning, I gave bo chup feeling to her.
 
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