bbfa got question for you - will you consider someone you not interested?

[MoeLanYong]

the back part of your description especially sounds a bit soulless and boring. how can 2 people with different personalities, temperament, upbringing, etc. agree on every single thing? unless you mean literally arguing and not disagreeing/having differing opinions. and 'treat you like a god' - guys like that? i'd rather be treated like a person than a god. someone who constantly puts you on a pedestal sounds like a nightmare to be around.

You got gf before?

 

[f-o-f!]

You got gf before?

no, i'm a girl..

 

[Akky85]

your statements made me recall something i read somewhere that the relationship is more likely to succeed if the guy is the one who is more attracted. meaning if he isn't, no matter how much the girl tries, she may not win him over. and conversely, if the girl is less interested, she may become more so over time.

I think it would be mostly the same if the role is reversed. I am sure we heard the opposite pairing and then in recent decade we label it simp etc.

 

[f-o-f!]

I think it would be mostly the same if the role is reversed. I am sure we heard the opposite pairing and then in recent decade we label it simp etc.

true, but i'm just wondering if the possibility of girls eventually falling for the guy is higher since girls generally place less emphasis on looks vs. guys, meaning there is a greater chance for girls to be moved by the guy's character than the other way around.

 

[MoeLanYong]

no, i'm a girl..

Lol. No wonder. Ya most experienced guys like submissive women. We dun want women who are combative and always argue. Yes no two people will always agree on every single thing but she will yield her views.

Meaning you view a matter as A. She views the same matter as B. But she will readily adopt your position of A.

Nothing boring and soulless. When she loves you enough, she will yield. She will be a delight to be with.

Crudely speaking, you ask her to take off her clothes, she takes off her clothes.

These type of women are rare gems.

A 4/10 face girl that does the above is far better than a 10/10 face girl who screams at you and orders you around. You ask her to take off her clothes, you shouts at you, calls you crazy, tells you dun touch her, gets angry with you, ignores you for 2 months.

 

[nasilemak100]

 

[Spike]

true, but i'm just wondering if the possibility of girls eventually falling for the guy is higher since girls generally place less emphasis on looks vs. guys, meaning there is a greater chance for girls to be moved by the guy's character than the other way around.

Unless they are colleagues, friends or fellow hobbyists in a real life context where both parties get to mingle, and communicate, maybe with time, the character might shine through.

Otherwise, zero possibility in a dating app situation.

 

[Go Fly Kite]

Marry the one u love.... 勉强是没有幸福的

 

[laksa2003]

need to test drive first..
suitable then buy

 

[Min Min]

i'm not saying those super ugly, super problematic, super broken with many tattoos or red flags everywhere.

just an average lady which you are not interested. maybe you rate them a 5 or 5.5 or even 4 out of 10.

but, nothing super turned off.


assuming you still want a relationship...
will you consider them after being forever alone for so long?
or will you insist to wait for a 6 and above, or whatever your target is.

if you didn’t even see her as a potential before then you probably have her friend zoned and don’t bother starting anything romantic with the said person

 

[f-o-f!]

Lol. No wonder. Ya most experienced guys like submissive women. We dun want women who are combative and always argue. Yes no two people will always agree on every single thing but she will yield her views.

Meaning you view a matter as A. She views the same matter as B. But she will readily adopt your position of A.

Nothing boring and soulless. When she loves you enough, she will yield. She will be a delight to be with.

Crudely speaking, you ask her to take off her clothes, she takes off her clothes.

These type of women are rare gems.

A 4/10 face girl that does the above is far better than a 10/10 face girl who screams at you and orders you around. You ask her to take off her clothes, you shouts at you, calls you crazy, tells you dun touch her, gets angry with you, ignores you for 2 months.

i guess it's a spectrum. combative is an extreme and so is submissive.

the person you described above sounds..i don't know. maybe good for fwb, but as a life partner? unless there is a logical reason, why agree on A when she initially thought B? simply because the other person thinks so?

not saying an argument is better, but it's alright for both parties to respectfully agree to disagree, or to compromise sometimes. it all sounds too mindless and one-way for me. like being with a bimbo/airhead?

the 10/10 also. the person you described doesn't even sound like she likes her partner. loving someone is important in a relationship, but so is liking them as a person. when you like them, you won't be treating them with such disrespect.

 

[f-o-f!]

Unless they are colleagues, friends or fellow hobbyists in a real life context where both parties get to mingle, and communicate, maybe with time, the character might shine through.

Otherwise, zero possibility in a dating app situation.

yeah, so i think guys must really be more attracted first then, to have a higher chance of things progressing.

 

[MoeLanYong]

i guess it's a spectrum. combative is an extreme and so is submissive.

the person you described above sounds..i don't know. maybe good for fwb, but as a life partner? unless there is a logical reason, why agree on A when she initially thought B? simply because the other person thinks so?

not saying an argument is better, but it's alright for both parties to respectfully agree to disagree, or to compromise sometimes. it all sounds too mindless and one-way for me. like being with a bimbo/airhead?

the 10/10 also. the person you described doesn't even sound like she likes her partner. loving someone is important in a relationship, but so is liking them as a person. when you like them, you won't be treating them with such disrespect.

Because when newly in love, agreeing to disagree is the most kosher thing to do. Everyone is respectul and chill.

But when merried and with 2 kids in tow, the masks come off. Each want things his/her way because that's the most logical thing to him/her. Both are tired of giving in. Both insist on his/her own views. Quarrels ensue.

Your blissful relationship becimes not so blissful. The smart woman will know how to yield to her man. For the sake of peace.

Because here's a secret.....pssst....the man will never yield.

 

[Spike]

yeah, so i think guys must really be more attracted first then, to have a higher chance of things progressing.

Simple! Show some cleavage! At least the eyes will be attracted!

 

[MoeLanYong]

the 10/10 also. the person you described doesn't even sound like she likes her partner. loving someone is important in a relationship, but so is liking them as a person. when you like them, you won't be treating them with such disrespect.

Funny you mention this. I am one of the very rare few in edmw that have dated a NPD person before.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder. These people are extremely self centred. They are also usually very good looking too.

They exist. They love. But they are incapable of being in a relationship because of their personality.

 

[Jeremy1]

Of course NO.

Would you consider a dinosaur

 

[Min Min]

Funny you mention this. I am one of the very rare few in edmw that have dated a NPD person before.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder. These people are extremely self centred. They are also usually very good looking too.

They exist. They love. But they are incapable of being in a relationship because of their personality.

funny to even see you saying NPD are usually very good looking

I had to even confirm it’s you that’s posting lol

 

[Min Min]

Because here's a secret.....pssst....the man will never yield.

blasphemy!!
men always yield to the one they love!!

 

[MoeLanYong]

funny to even see you saying NPD are usually very good looking

I had to even confirm it’s you that’s posting lol

Er....what's wrong with it?

NPD people think they are very good looking and have a excessive grandiosity of a sense of superiority in their looks.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder

And what's it about me posting it?