30s-50s chitchat club

[flowerpalms]

i'm watching this now...

Andy Lau and Sammi Cheng are colleagues.

Andy started to develop a crush on Sammi and is jealous when Sammi and another guy (acted by Raymond Wong) became very close.

What is so funny is that Andy, Sammi and Raymond ages at year 2000 are almost the same as me, my crush and an intern (I mentioned him in my previous post)

This one

 

[Mr.Kopi]

i'm watching this now...

Andy Lau and Sammi Cheng are colleagues.

Andy started to develop a crush on Sammi and is jealous when Sammi and another guy (acted by Raymond Wong) became very close.

What is so funny is that Andy, Sammi and Raymond ages at year 2000 are almost the same as me, my crush and an intern (I mentioned him in my previous post)

Are you pieces boy?

 

[jeffprobst]

There are some small little subtle difference that I am unsure if is a deal-killer or just something I need to compromise on due to cultural differences (she is non-chinese foreigner).

One thing that bothers me is that she refuse to make new friends and that she completely have lost touch with all her own friends in her home country. Conversely she is very very close to her mother.

The one thing we share in common is that we both want kids. It is important for me too and her as well. Especially for my age (already 40). So I am quite keen to make this relationship work.

At first she said she was okay for me to continue with my own activities but it became apparent it was a problem for her. I decided then to spend all my free time with her but I feel kind of worried.

I also had hoped that by spending more time with her, it will lead on to her being more familiar with me and then it will be easier to have difficult conversations.

From what you have shared, it sounds like there are some fundamental lifestyle differences between the two of you. If both parties continue to avoid addressing them, it is likely the relationship will reach a breaking point eventually when either with growing resentment, more quarrels, or one person having to silently compromise and be unhappy.

Also, wanting to make the relationship work mainly because of your age may not be a fair or sustainable reason, either for yourself or for her. A relationship should be built on genuine compatibility and willingness to grow together, not fear of running out of time. Otherwise, both of you may end up feeling trapped rather than fulfilled.

 

[jeffprobst]

Now just order online bah. Better than nothing.

yeah. nowadays i just buy online. anyway, those selling in store very expensive also.

 

[jeffprobst]

His is going to be a FLAT+J theme

please dun get me involve with this FLAT thing. thanks.

 

[TerryPower]

This one

My crush and I were talking about 四大天王, she think Andy Lau most handsome out of the 4 and recommended this movie

 

[TerryPower]

So it's true, you're andy lau......

Lau? No

老？是的

 

[singexpat]

Pls. I 1 min wanna uoloory

2 x 1 min lo

 

[singexpat]

But it helps.... personally used to go tuina weekly cuz of very bad lower back pain.... been plaguing me for years... then someone suggest that it might be anterior posterior tilt, checked some physio videos online and followed the exercises.... back pain gone!

I agree. Most of the times really our posture

 

[singexpat]

2mins not even enough to remove clothes.

U need to practice more change parade

 

[Lss]

U need to practice more change parade

Just be nudist! 0 second!

 

[harbinger255]

2mins not even enough to remove clothes.

Just only the essentials required to get the party started..... the rest can multitask

 

[jeffprobst]

this morning went pray my mom. time flies. it been 4 years since my mom returned her nric.

 

[Lss]

Just only the essentials required to get the party started..... the rest can multitask

I heard if dry no need to remove clothing also

 

[lemonzil]

2mins not even enough to remove clothes.

Some people don’t remove clothes also can

 

[lemonzil]

Pls. I 1 min wanna uoloory

Can start with 30 secs. Then slowly increase. You will get better. One shot 1 min for starters is not easy.

Otherwise, put music along with it.

 

[lemonzil]

please dun get me involve with this FLAT thing. thanks.

How far back you dig this post sia?

 

[jeffprobst]

2mins not even enough to remove clothes.

Just only the essentials required to get the party started..... the rest can multitask

I heard if dry no need to remove clothing also

Im innocent. can explain what you guys discussing? seems important.

 

[jeffprobst]

How far back you dig this post sia?

no reh. this one is like 3-4 pages ago.

 

[Duc_mn]

Next time I invite you to housewarming. Show you my japandi/muji theme house

please dun get me involve with this FLAT thing. thanks.

Fp has been saying J theme for few years......