Asked To Be The Cheap Friend Photographer At A Wedding, But Just HOW Cheap Led To The Destruction Of All The Pics

Spike

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Serves to say that it doesn't pay to be kind. :(

A photographer agreed to shoot a friend’s wedding for just $250. He spent the entire day — from 11 AM to 7:30 PM — working in a sweltering venue with no air conditioning, and wasn’t offered any food or water.

By 5 PM, he asked to take a short 20-minute break to grab something to eat. The groom shut him down, replying: “You’re either the photographer or you leave without getting paid.”

Exhausted and overheated, the photographer had enough. Right then and there, he deleted all the wedding photos in front of the groom and said: “I’m not your photographer anymore.”

The story went viral on Reddit, sparking major support for the photographer. Many blasted the couple for how they treated their friend, though some questioned whether deleting the photos was taking it too far.

https://twistedsifter.com/2025/09/t...cheap-led-to-the-destruction-of-all-the-pics/
 

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Nothing wrong with deleting the photos esp if the couple's being this level of twat.

but he'd deleted it too early.

i'd had waited till end of the whole day and when the couple decides to cheap out and not pay (high probability), I'd just format the CF card in one fell swoop.
 

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did he himself agreed to in the first place ?

I am not siding with the groom/bride obviously.

but he himself also alot of problem by accepting it in the first place.

This is why I always say No No No No No to anything and everything.
 

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Serves to say that it doesn't pay to be kind. :(

A photographer agreed to shoot a friend’s wedding for just $250. He spent the entire day — from 11 AM to 7:30 PM — working in a sweltering venue with no air conditioning, and wasn’t offered any food or water.

By 5 PM, he asked to take a short 20-minute break to grab something to eat. The groom shut him down, replying: “You’re either the photographer or you leave without getting paid.”

Exhausted and overheated, the photographer had enough. Right then and there, he deleted all the wedding photos in front of the groom and said: “I’m not your photographer anymore.”

The story went viral on Reddit, sparking major support for the photographer. Many blasted the couple for how they treated their friend, though some questioned whether deleting the photos was taking it too far.

https://twistedsifter.com/2025/09/t...cheap-led-to-the-destruction-of-all-the-pics/
Why you post such scammy looking link? 🔗
 

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Serves to say that it doesn't pay to be kind. :(

A photographer agreed to shoot a friend’s wedding for just $250. He spent the entire day — from 11 AM to 7:30 PM — working in a sweltering venue with no air conditioning, and wasn’t offered any food or water.

By 5 PM, he asked to take a short 20-minute break to grab something to eat. The groom shut him down, replying: “You’re either the photographer or you leave without getting paid.”

Exhausted and overheated, the photographer had enough. Right then and there, he deleted all the wedding photos in front of the groom and said: “I’m not your photographer anymore.”

The story went viral on Reddit, sparking major support for the photographer. Many blasted the couple for how they treated their friend, though some questioned whether deleting the photos was taking it too far.

https://twistedsifter.com/2025/09/t...cheap-led-to-the-destruction-of-all-the-pics/
Not going to get paid, then the groom say you leave without getting paid, yup just leave and cut contacts.. no need leave any photos for them.
 
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