The Independent SG - ‘He doesn’t pay when we’re out on a date!’ — SG women give their brutally honest answers to: ‘What’s one thing that makes you los

[11.11.]

The video, clocking close to 30K views and 1000 likes, didn’t hold back. Each woman gave her brutally honest (and sometimes hilariously savage) take on what sends a man straight into the “ick” and “eeew” zone.

• “Oh, usually when they open their mouth!” quipped one woman, drawing immediate laughter.
• “If the ego is damn big!” another woman added, while several other women in the nightlife scene said all the following:
• “Narcissism!”
• “If he doesn’t respect me!”
• “Possessiveness!”
• “Rudeness!”
• “When they’re too touchy!”
• “If they don’t reply!”
• “A pick me man!”
• “When he has no ambition!”

And of course, the line that’s caused a mini earthquake was: “If you don’t offer to pay on a date!”


Another woman drove the point home with a gesture straight out of a K-drama breakup scene: Crossing her arms in an “X” and declaring, “The lack of communication!” with a disgusted facial expression that said, “bye!”

https://theindependent.sg/he-doesnt...-thing-that-makes-you-lose-interest-in-a-man/

 

[bobo07]

thick skin leechers

 

[Mattitude]

Some hot ones in there though!

 

[Dinoboyboy]

heng i dont just pay on a date, i pay for a date and pay after a date..

 

[weiess]

all not chio leh.. expectations still so high?

 

[lampano]

Some hot ones in there though!

 

[Medicated Oil]

Good luck.
They have high probability of winning toto than to find their perfect bf.

 

[Reddit]

The video, clocking close to 30K views and 1000 likes, didn’t hold back. Each woman gave her brutally honest (and sometimes hilariously savage) take on what sends a man straight into the “ick” and “eeew” zone.

• “Oh, usually when they open their mouth!” quipped one woman, drawing immediate laughter.
• “If the ego is damn big!” another woman added, while several other women in the nightlife scene said all the following:
• “Narcissism!”
• “If he doesn’t respect me!”
• “Possessiveness!”
• “Rudeness!”
• “When they’re too touchy!”
• “If they don’t reply!”
• “A pick me man!”
• “When he has no ambition!”

And of course, the line that’s caused a mini earthquake was: “If you don’t offer to pay on a date!”


Another woman drove the point home with a gesture straight out of a K-drama breakup scene: Crossing her arms in an “X” and declaring, “The lack of communication!” with a disgusted facial expression that said, “bye!”

https://theindependent.sg/he-doesnt...-thing-that-makes-you-lose-interest-in-a-man/

I'm married for a little over twenty years, with a son and two daughters. So my perspective may be a little different.

Other than the first comment, which seems like a mean-spirited joke, the rest are very reasonable. Should my daughters choose to marry, I would be worried and disappointed if my future son-in-law has any of such characteristics. I would be equally dismayed if my own son were to show such behaviour.

 

[5adisticD3vil]

meanwhile all these women were sent straight into the ick ewww zone by the council of men.

 

[SayPorkGuy]

imma only affected if one say if he shorter than her, but they will never say it openly one.

 

[purplewave]

why must we always pay?

 

[Vincentlow82]

No one mention no car.

 

[Roundtreex]

I'm married for a little over twenty years, with a son and two daughters. So my perspective may be a little different.

Other than the first comment, which seems like a mean-spirited joke, the rest are very reasonable. Should my daughters choose to marry, I would be worried and disappointed if my future son-in-law has any of such characteristics. I would be equally dismayed if my own son were to show such behaviour.

Exactly. No one want to let their own daughter marry to useless man. Keep ranting here.

 

[Medicated Oil]

 

[Rotikiaz]

Exactly. No one want to let their own daughter marry to useless man. Keep ranting here.

exactly, i will scold my son if he doesn't know how to treat his gf right

 

[Youngpang7]

Knn got some really damn bui. Wth have they been eating

 

[batman_888]

what if AMDK is the person.

the girls will reply, i treat you, can i go ur home, anything for u

 

[bikermice]

if its a amdk then these woman will probably fight to pay for his every expenses

 

[Kia7200]

Guys u should focus more on urself, earn more money, go to the gym. Once u r successful, have a good healthy appearances and have higher income. Women will just come to automatically

If u only focus on what sg female want n try all ways to please her n not offending her then waste ur resources on her. U will be a loser to her n ur guy friends will just mock at u

 

[BlackWing1977]

And somehow they want to blame men for becoming incels...