If a girl likes a guy, it's easy mode for the guy

foreveru13

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SkyNinja said:
Correct? Then it's better to wait for a girl to chase than to chase a girl who is not interested in you and hoping she will like you back.
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half true la. but later wait also no one. might as well also do 50% and half befriend but half try to show your interest for more to girls you like. some girls is beidong, meaning, you shower them with affection they become soft hearted and consider you - BUT you must be their type la.
 
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ribena.bing said:
i had to reject a few. i think got at least 4?

those that i went out with. nearly a dozen? i dont want to count. but end up not really suitable. because when a girl likes you, she likes your facade. she likes what she thinks you are. i was abit beng and introverted last time. so naturally, educated girls found me mysterious and intriguing.

but for most ppl, how they carry themselves socially isnt the real them. and either the girl likes you for who you really are... or she learns the truth and give you up ...

and you end up more hurt because she had squeezed into your heart and now there's a gaping bleeding hole where she used to be

as i adulted... i realized there's no point changing who you are. because leopards dont change their spots... same for semenboy ...

so just find someone you are compatible with really. no need go for chiobu. no need go for dua liap.
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Yes I agree the person you admire at social or work setting probably just a facade. But for my case, it was I who left disappointed and hurt.
 
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If a gal likes you, she will giggle and laugh at your jokes no matter how lame it is. And will always respond to messages very promptly and have cute emojis too. :LOL:
 
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Got to consider twice, when a girl is being too proactive, usually she is after something more than just money alone and the relationship tends to be short term.

This kind of girl might have unpleasant family background or past relationship history marked with own kids.
 
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SkyNinja said:
Correct? Then it's better to wait for a girl to chase than to chase a girl who is not interested in you and hoping she will like you back.
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Our edmw resident shuai ge priest share some insights to how easy it is. @kage :o
 
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