How to deal with your partner with 101 為什麼?

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My husband has never ending questions for me and like to keep talking to me endlessly lol
101 為什麼

example: ask me want go there eat what then ownself start talking and making plans
then ask why you no give any suggestions ah? lol then ownself talk ownself song

go shopping together also ask you why you choose this and not that?
why i prefer this color and not that color?
why this brand over the other brands?

Then kept talking even though i dont want engage with him further….

are you this kind of partner or you have any partner like this?
 

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My husband has never ending questions for me and like to keep talking to me endlessly lol
101 為什麼

example: ask me want go there eat what then ownself start talking and making plans
then ask why you no give any suggestions ah? lol then ownself talk ownself song

go shopping together also ask you why you choose this and not that?
why i prefer this color and not that color?
why this brand over the other brands?

Then kept talking even though i dont want engage with him further….

are you this kind of partner or you have any partner like this?

Looks like your husband is new and have not master his role? Sounds very green horn. One time my wife mixed up Botanical garden with Gardens by the Bay and questioned me why I went the wrong way...I just say, no problem, we just change course will do. She was still grumpy knowing it was her fault but stopped questioning me ...🤣

Normally, the experienced husband will said, "yes, this color is good. Looks great on you...". Your husband never mix with more experienced husband or spent much time on this forum?
 
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Husbands keep quiet, say nothing, wife will jjww say block head, don’t care, don’t bother to communicate.

Then we have your case, husband ask about everything, and you jjww.

i mean it’s cute and irritating all at once but I feel bad that he ends up talking with me not responding cos he never stops talking lol
 

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we married for 12 years ago where got new

he has been talking ever since lol

How is it possible you married him and only started complaining about his behaviors 12 years after? Is he suffering from Alzheimer or hit menopause? How many kids you all have?
 

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How is it possible you married him and only started complaining about his behaviors 12 years after? Is he suffering from Alzheimer or hit menopause? How many kids you all have?

I not complaining. it’s just amusing to me that he has endless things to say to me after so many years

asking if anyone else is the same or have partners like that nia
 

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i have little interest in the stuff she loves eg lingerie, clothing, cosmetics, dress watches, perfumes, shoes. i don't comment or ask questions unless she needs an opinion. as far as possible, i use telepathy via facial expressions
 

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I not complaining. it’s just amusing to me that he has endless things to say to me after so many years

asking if anyone else is the same or have partners like that nia

Definitely not normal. 12 years of marriage and learned nothing?
 

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My husband has never ending questions for me and like to keep talking to me endlessly lol
101 為什麼

example: ask me want go there eat what then ownself start talking and making plans
then ask why you no give any suggestions ah? lol then ownself talk ownself song

go shopping together also ask you why you choose this and not that?
why i prefer this color and not that color?
why this brand over the other brands?

Then kept talking even though i dont want engage with him further….

are you this kind of partner or you have any partner like this?
This precisely is why men in this country aren't interested in getting into a relationship. Perfect example of talk cannot. Don't talk also cannot.

Surely there needs to be some intuition and synergy before you decide to start 69-ing each other in more ways than one.

What do you mean by 'this kind' of partner? If this kind of interaction doesn't interest you then maybe you don't need to have a partner or be with this person.

It's also super weird to ask the internet for advice about something that's so intertwined and private (ie. Your exclusive interactions with your partner) which will almost always impossible to portray in a rando forum post with some words.

All I see from this post is a clueless, yapping man and a even more clueless woman that loves to air her private affairs online. Perhaps you two are more deserving of each other than you think
 

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TS, what if he told you...
其实我只想听你的声音,所以才一直问你问题:o

will u be touched? 🥰
 

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This precisely is why men in this country aren't interested in getting into a relationship. Perfect example of talk cannot. Don't talk also cannot.

Surely there needs to be some intuition and synergy before you decide to start 69-ing each other in more ways than one.

What do you mean by 'this kind' of partner? If this kind of interaction doesn't interest you then maybe you don't need to have a partner or be with this person.

It's also super weird to ask the internet for advice about something that's so intertwined and private (ie. Your exclusive interactions with your partner) which will almost always impossible to portray in a rando forum post with some words.

All I see from this post is a clueless, yapping man and a even more clueless woman that loves to air her private affairs online. Perhaps you two are more deserving of each other than you think

i never did asked for advice

you are too serious for EDMW
 

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Came to terms liao. Ask rike no ask. Whatever moi say, it’d counter with something else. Machiam Hobson’s choice. Maybe cos it’s a sarporter of Peace and Prosperity. 🤷🏾‍♀️
 
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