$230K in debt and $2.7K/month Job. What should she do?

What should she do?

  • Declare bankruptcy?

    Votes: 50 40.7%
  • Grind to pay back?

    Votes: 7 5.7%
  • Unalive?

    Votes: 5 4.1%
  • OnlyFans?

    Votes: 56 45.5%
  • GiveAsia

    Votes: 5 4.1%

  • Total voters
    123

WarMage87

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hard truth is that as a female, even if you are at your wits' end, as long as u are willing to let go of your dignity, money will come flowing in, as long as you let something flow into you..

on a serious note, another great example of why you need to find a right partner.
Open legs?
 

clearwhitesky

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According to bike forum, local bikes usually over $500 de.

Not sure if local premium tax or just delulu in general, but it seems to work there.

If local bike priced at $200, I think the bikers will think it’s scam. :s13:
Singapore bike more expensive Becos need to factor in COE
 

runny yolk

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hard truth is that as a female, even if you are at your wits' end, as long as u are willing to let go of your dignity, money will come flowing in, as long as you let something flow into you..

on a serious note, another great example of why you need to find a right partner.
Many gheys are very rich too, if know where to find them many problems with disappear
 

huihong

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marry right person, your life will be well.

marry wrong person, your life will be hell.
 

Jude Raphael

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Recently there's an article about a father throwing joss paper outside the flat of a guy who isn't working much. He feels that his daughter should stay away from the guy.

But here's my thoughts:

That man's daughter should learn her own lesson, and write her own story, if its similar to this, so be it.

Life is all about choices, live with it.

Marry the wrong guy? You chose your own path, right?
I agree to a certain extent that kids should be allowed to make mistakes and learn from these.

However, from a parent’s point of view, it’s really a complex feeling when you see the kid walking towards a “pot-hole” but do nothing to pull him/her back.

True, the kid may learn a lesson at the end of the day, but at what price?
To a parent, he/she would have felt that they might have failed the kid, somehow. There’d always be that nagging feeling that had the parent done more, he/she would have prevented the scenario from happening. Call it the protective instinct of a parent, I suppose?

Of course, there’ll come one day when parents are no longer in the position to help their children and only to let go.
 

drkcynic

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90% of "advice" is of a sexual nature.

This place really full of 20k/mth or adolescents with raging hormones I'll never know.
 

Mountainnodew

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Since your ex was the one who borrowed from your relatives and friends, they should approach him directly. For the debt you incurred, maybe can draft up an instalment plan which is interest free and get their approval. Declare bankrupt is easy but discharge from it is not. If can’t discharge, then you are stuck. It’s like paying for a new car loan, every month pay until finish.
 
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