30s-50s chitchat club

[highsulphur]

Why would any sensible woman think monetary capability is permanent and is the only factor too? Can't be so naive to think that her spouse is not subjected to external economic conditions at the point of marriage right?

notice you are often talking about marriage still. perhaps it is time to move on?

 

[albert.wesker]

Am also saying that the women who suggested divorcing due to monetary reasons be divorced too

And i don't need to have a clue of what men values. Both reasons are toxic. Just divorce than being stuck with such toxicity is the best

Unfortunately the society allows the women to get away with such toxic behaviours in fact even cheer them on too wor

I.e. "You know your worth girl~"

 

[highsulphur]

We are very consistent. Either 18 year old or 21 year old only ok.

if I am single now, I doubt I will date anyone before 30

 

[albert.wesker]

notice you are often talking about marriage still. perhaps it is time to move on?

Bo lah not about me new topic liao hee

 

[pepsitwist]

Unfortunately the society allows the women to get away with such toxic behaviours in fact even cheer them on too wor

I.e. "You know your worth girl~"

Women are simply more vocal on social media ma.

But come edmw, that's when the toxic men comments start coming out, so seem pretty fair to me

 

[LingTan98]

Or maybe the guy simply told her a different story? Why do you suspect she's gaslighting u?

It's probably because I know them well enough, and it isn't the first time they have used this approach to tell me that "it isn't my fault even though it is".

 

[albert.wesker]

Women are simply more vocal on social media ma.

But come edmw, that's when the toxic men comments start coming out, so seem pretty fair to me

One is on societal level the other is on edmw level very big difference

 

[highsulphur]

Bo lah not about me new topic liao hee

But your topic seems to on relationships quite often

It's probably because I know them well enough, and it isn't the first time they have used this approach to tell me that "it isn't my fault even though it is".

What do they expect you to act otherwise? To drop everything and move to US with him?

 

[albert.wesker]

It's probably because I know them well enough, and it isn't the first time they have used this approach to tell me that "it isn't my fault even though it is".

A female gaslighting another female hee

 

[pepsitwist]

One is on societal level the other is on edmw level very big difference

Eh? Societal level simply cos it's on social media??

 

[albert.wesker]

But your topic seems to on relationships quite often

What do they expect you to act otherwise? To drop everything and move to US with him?

Topic on relationship means it's about me ah

 

[pepsitwist]

It's probably because I know them well enough, and it isn't the first time they have used this approach to tell me that "it isn't my fault even though it is".

Why is she even meeting u though? To tell u it's ur fault? But break up already why even bother to say whose fault it is

 

[highsulphur]

One is on societal level the other is on edmw level very big difference

Don't think there is or can ever be enough empirical evidence. Most we get are anecdotal ones

 

[albert.wesker]

Eh? Societal level simply cos it's on social media??

The society is not limited to social media leh

 

[pepsitwist]

if I am single now, I doubt I will date anyone before 30

But he said i dunno what men values leh... can u tell me what a men values in that aspect of age?

 

[albert.wesker]

Don't think there is or can ever be enough empirical evidence. Most we get are anecdotal ones

U seen before a woman gets condemned for divorcing a man due to financial reasons?

 

[pepsitwist]

The society is not limited to social media leh

Then where else other than social media do u hear that kind of comments? I don't hear those leh, maybe it's time to re-evaluate your social circle

 

[albert.wesker]

Then where else other than social media do u hear that kind of comments? I don't hear those leh, maybe it's time to re-evaluate your social circle

Bo lah nothing to do with my social circle

 

[Autumn.]

Moi did housekeeping last week. Really can die.

i still have another 40% to go..... chuck out 1 luggage of things , going to donate another 1 luggage

The JejuAir crash is scary

i shall stick to ANA, Qantas, SQ as much as i can. Korea's airlines has their issues. more on human factor. I know that Asiana has been correcting that(in cockpit) for last decade.

Yes overseas all the more you drive safe

i used to warn singaporeans in singapore dun drive beyond 80km/hr even for 110-120km/hr roads in NZ and parts of OZ. i got snuff at " WLE u dont drive how u even know!"

BC singaporeans dun drive that much in SG and roads are so well maintained. there are subtle traffic rules differ from SG. also u drive well and safe =! others does the same. There are alot of drivers who filter into your lane in speed with 1 click of signal instead of the usual 3 clicks before filtering

 

[aceminer]

But your topic seems to on relationships quite often

What do they expect you to act otherwise? To drop everything and move to US with him?

If expect to drop everything rly ridiculous especially so last min. Then she will be damn vulnerable only him for support