那些年我们一起追的女孩

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Inside my brain and heart, sort of given up on any approach to have a relationship. Only a guy will understand how a guy feel when he chased 6-7 girls since teenage years until young adult yet there was never once an officially dating .

End up I just go ktv to satisfy the lust and accompany
Guys around me won’t understand because they are attached, a girl popped up in their life and she said yes to a relationship, no obstacles at all

They won’t know how you feel, because they have girls appearing in their life and get together, no rejections at all, all towards marriage and happy ever after
 

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What do you mean? I am referring to relationship
I mean career, relationship for me, at the end of the day is optional. If have, then good. If don't have, good as well. But career is a must have and essential, I can't live without that. Relationship also tends to be more subjective, hence why I prefer not to pursue it in the time being.

Guys around me won’t understand because they are attached, a girl popped up in their life and she said yes to a relationship, no obstacles at all

They won’t know how you feel, because they have girls appearing in their life and get together, no rejections at all, all towards marriage and happy ever after
This example reminds me of scholar. It's tough for them to understand what it is for those who have to struggle in school to climb up there, since they are set for life already.
 

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This example reminds me of scholar. It's tough for them to understand what it is for those who have to struggle in school to climb up there, since they are set for life already.
Exactly

people just don’t know why the guy is not attached and make fun, look down on him

he may follow their friend’s advice on how to get a girlfriend but it does not work, then the friend laughed at him and say he beh kan

improving appearance, salary, etc does not even help, does not mean will get a girlfriend when these are done

so yes they don’t understand the suffering of a BBFA/FA
 

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Exactly

people just don’t know why the guy is not attached and make fun, look down on him

he may follow their friend’s advice on how to get a girlfriend but it does not work, then the friend laughed at him and say he beh kan

improving appearance, salary, etc does not even help, does not mean will get a girlfriend when these are done

so yes they don’t understand the suffering of a BBFA/FA

I agree with chiu. Now I am just hoping to find a full time job and go travelling to meet like minded peepur overseas for adventure . I like doing adventure stuff such as skiing, hiking which this country doesn’t offers . Don’t really know if most girls will like these types of activities , mostly I interacted with everyday just watch show, drama, movie … buy stuff online.. life is pretty boring
 

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First of all, 九把刀 writes crap.
Second , he is a douchebag in real life.

why all of you so hang up on his works??
 

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movie so long ago haha
Some others:
1. Cafe waiting love
2. Cafe 66
3. 我的少女时代 our times?
Recent ones:
moi forget already maybe
1. 比悲伤跟悲伤的故事
2. The movie that use GEM song: 很久很久以后
 

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Inside my brain and heart, sort of given up on any approach to have a relationship. Only a guy will understand how a guy feel when he chased 6-7 girls since teenage years until young adult yet there was never once an officially dating .

End up I just go ktv to satisfy the lust and accompany
did u go for all the high tier girls??
 

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Inside my brain and heart, sort of given up on any approach to have a relationship. Only a guy will understand how a guy feel when he chased 6-7 girls since teenage years until young adult yet there was never once an officially dating .

End up I just go ktv to satisfy the lust and accompany

girls are not attracted to you, u chase for what

conversely, why would a girl be attracted to you now?
 

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movie so long ago haha
Some others:
1. Cafe waiting love
2. Cafe 66
3. 我的少女时代 our times?
Recent ones:
moi forget already maybe
1. 比悲伤跟悲伤的故事
2. The movie that use GEM song: 很久很久以后

i only watched 后来的我们
stirred some uncomfortable memories :ROFLMAO:
 

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Exactly

people just don’t know why the guy is not attached and make fun, look down on him

he may follow their friend’s advice on how to get a girlfriend but it does not work, then the friend laughed at him and say he beh kan

improving appearance, salary, etc does not even help, does not mean will get a girlfriend when these are done

so yes they don’t understand the suffering of a BBFA/FA
What works for others, might not necessarily work for yourself. For my family, it was mainly matchmaking. Spontaneous meetups just didn't suffice for their case. It varies from people to people. Some people need to improve appearance and salary, to get a gf. Some even if they try, they can't get one. Some get one without doing much. Whole range of diversity, but most important thing is to be optimistic regardless of the situation.
I agree with chiu. Now I am just hoping to find a full time job and go travelling to meet like minded peepur overseas for adventure . I like doing adventure stuff such as skiing, hiking which this country doesn’t offers . Don’t really know if most girls will like these types of activities , mostly I interacted with everyday just watch show, drama, movie … buy stuff online.. life is pretty boring
Chase the fire and find an interest outside of chasing girls. As you mentioned, focus on career, travelling for yourself and not for other people. I think that is the way forward in life.

Eventually, you might be able to find satisfaction living on your own.
 

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girls are not attracted to you, u chase for what

conversely, why would a girl be attracted to you now?

I cannot answer chiu this question because moi also don’t know

Moi chase because I experience before the one I liked, peepur within moi interest group potong her then broke up in less than 3months . By then, I have lost contact with her riao
 

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i forget which fellow bro here said before.

An average girl have 5, 6 suitors surrounding her.

But an average guy will never have 5,6 girls surrounding him.

I agree. that is the sad thing about life. but no point harping over it. haha
 

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i forget which fellow bro here said before.

An average girl have 5, 6 suitors surrounding her.

But an average guy will never have 5,6 girls surrounding him.

I agree. that is the sad thing about life. but no point harping over it. haha
seems correct
for every cheehong kia that goes after 10 girls at the same time
there is a bbfa everyday go home eat cai png fap sleep

I agree with chiu. Now I am just hoping to find a full time job and go travelling to meet like minded peepur overseas for adventure . I like doing adventure stuff such as skiing, hiking which this country doesn’t offers . Don’t really know if most girls will like these types of activities , mostly I interacted with everyday just watch show, drama, movie … buy stuff online.. life is pretty boring

i used to go trekking in uni n cc clubs
a lot of girls, very easy to talk to, always see new couples forming after the trip
 
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