男人越来越清醒了,开始躲避女人了,真的是肺腑之言

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Think becoming a rare breed nowadays. Need to really looks carefully before consider settle down with who. Think what mentioned in the vid resonated with many men in many other places also. Seem common nowadays.

If got observed, there seems more materialistic one nowadays (not just in the economical but physical sense also). Many get married seems just want to leech more on the other half. Own self not capable not earning more but expect alot more from the other half to provide. Not really pulling the weight.

If look around, can see many often tend expect to go travel when still dating. Worse go as family when have young kids, which is even more troublesome and tiring with young kids. And thus more of the taking care of kids and such still fall on the guy. Go travel is abit of 活受罪 for them.

And nowadays more of the taking care of kid needs tend pass to the guy, if not caregiver. Yet expect the guy to still bring home the bacon and be responsible for most of the stuffs. The guy like 无头苍蝇, can see more everyday rush here rush there just fetching kids around to various commitments they planned, and running various errand they asked. No time for own work. Yet expect to be working hard and earning more. How to. :s22:
Long story short, it’s the women’s problem that’s causing it
 

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It’s not. More like men are resorting to porn, paid sex or casual sex to satisfy their needs. Women will have multiple partners thru their life without commitment. This typical lifestyle mindset is detrimental to society.
Cuz women only target the rich and handsome mah

so many of them share one rich n handsome guy.

imagine 8 out of 10 women go for that 2 rich handsome guys. After awhile they realise they cannot get the rich handsome guy cuz he can only marry one. So they move on to the next rich handsome guy. And the cycle repeats with women moving on from one handsome rich guy to the next.

end up the rest of the guys who are not rich not handsome not bad boys all can only resort to online stuff or brothels

depicting the scenario u mentioned
 

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The society will just face ageing population issues lor

and no new generation to support the economy. The next few upcoming and dwindling generations are going to have a tough time supporting the rapidly growing ageing population

lol
So follow what russia and ukraine did

Send all the lao unkers and convicts to die at the frontlines. iirc, in ukraine, young men below 25 exempted from conscription. Think russia should be similar

After the war, their societies will have a lot fewer old people and convicts.
 

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that's why I always support Women's Charter has to be dismantled to reverse this phenomenon ...
This trend would continue even after women's charter dismantled. The video is based on cn. They don't have women's charter. Doesn't mean women's charter has no effect. It has. But in this video, it's emphasis I believe is the brainwash by social media that has a big part to play in this trend. Simi dowry..Simi every festival also must buy gift..Simi low income girl can demand high income guy drain his salary and look down on high income guy..
 

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Cuz women only target the rich and handsome mah

so many of them share one rich n handsome guy.

imagine 8 out of 10 women go for that 2 rich handsome guys. After awhile they realise they cannot get the rich handsome guy cuz he can only marry one. So they move on to the next rich handsome guy. And the cycle repeats with women moving on from one handsome rich guy to the next.

end up the rest of the guys who are not rich not handsome not bad boys all can only resort to online stuff or brothels

depicting the scenario u mentioned
Also don't be too happy if some girls are willing to marry not rich guys. They could be only marrying down cos they have no other better option. It means you are not her first option. Resentment can build up as time passes by. Wife may start comparing with other friends who are well to do and scolding the husband for not being able to provide the same material comfort. That's why marriage is a trap cos you can't tell if the girl you marry would end up being like that. In this era, it's even more pronounced as they have social media to do the comparing straightaway without even the need to hear gossips from friends meetings..
 

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Also don't be too happy if some girls are willing to marry not rich guys. They could be only marrying down cos they have no other better option. It means you are not her first option. Resentment can build up as time passes by. Wife may start comparing with other friends who are well to do and scolding the husband for not being able to provide the same material comfort. That's why marriage is a trap cos you can't tell if the girl you marry would end up being like that. In this era, it's even more pronounced as they have social media to do the comparing straightaway without even the need to hear gossips from friends meetings..
long story short, its the women's problem again
 

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It's like a madcampus
It’s not. More like men are resorting to porn, paid sex or casual sex to satisfy their needs. Women will have multiple partners thru their life without commitment. This typical lifestyle mindset is detrimental to society.
 

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really respect people who are married n have childrens, all these need money.
 

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Exactly like how western and developed Asian countries experiencing. MGTOW - man going on their own way. Actually it’s quite scary if 80% not marrying and having children. Will create lots of social problems in the future. The core family value is important for the survival of a country. #redpill
Under winnie where got hope? I am tiong I will also become the last generation in my house.
 

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that's why I always support Women's Charter has to be dismantled to reverse this phenomenon ...
Bro, their WC different from ours lah. You sure you understand every details of their WC? I actually think theirs is quite fair.
 

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I didn't bother to watch finished, but for 1st point, just find a non-materialistic girl, solve the problem, there are plenty in buddhists. 2nd point, 彩礼 in sg is just 四点金 for some ppl, when my 2 sis married dun even have cos my parents no insisted on that.
 
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