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Cometdevil

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I don't see a problem with the seller. And it surely doest make seller a bad person
You want buy out down payment first then collect later lo.

What's wrong with collecting money earlier (selling to another person who collect and pay earlier)
 

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was looking to buy something, thought the other party with similar interest would really consider sell it to me, though the seller did say want to sell to someone who can collect it earlier and say will consider sell me if really can't find another buyer

two days later i asked again for seller to reconsider selling to me and i won't ninja, end up tell me sell liao :frown::frown:

don't ask me buy what please

He already hinted to you, either you collect earlier or raise your bid. It does not make seller a good or bad people either way.
 

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was looking to buy something, thought the other party with similar interest would really consider sell it to me, though the seller did say want to sell to someone who can collect it earlier and say will consider sell me if really can't find another buyer

two days later i asked again for seller to reconsider selling to me and i won't ninja, end up tell me sell liao :frown::frown:

don't ask me buy what please

Gotch better price of coz sell riaoz... Seller only chupz the $... Bohz chupz who gets it... :s22::frown:
 

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was looking to buy something, thought the other party with similar interest would really consider sell it to me, though the seller did say want to sell to someone who can collect it earlier and say will consider sell me if really can't find another buyer

two days later i asked again for seller to reconsider selling to me and i won't ninja, end up tell me sell liao :frown::frown:

don't ask me buy what please
Don't be sad Ah Gui.

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"will consider sell me if really can't find another buyer"

He found another buyer within 2 days. Means that buyer is offering better terms.

How much discount you ask seller to give?
 

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I buy things also got ghost-ed before. Best is don’t let it affect u and move on.
 

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was looking to buy something, thought the other party with similar interest would really consider sell it to me, though the seller did say want to sell to someone who can collect it earlier and say will consider sell me if really can't find another buyer

two days later i asked again for seller to reconsider selling to me and i won't ninja, end up tell me sell liao :frown::frown:

don't ask me buy what please
You low balled seller izzit, no reason why will sell to others but not you
 

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I don't see a problem with the seller. And it surely doest make seller a bad person
You want buy out down payment first then collect later lo.

What's wrong with collecting money earlier (selling to another person who collect and pay earlier)
i wish i can put down payment but is overseas seller and i also scared tio scam
 

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Gotch better price of coz sell riaoz... Seller only chupz the $... Bohz chupz who gets it... :s22::frown:
Don't be sad Ah Gui.

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"will consider sell me if really can't find another buyer"

He found another buyer within 2 days. Means that buyer is offering better terms.

How much discount you ask seller to give?
You low balled seller izzit, no reason why will sell to others but not you
seller selling at original price

the only thing i lose out is i can't collect earlier :frown::frown:
 

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seller selling at original price

the only thing i lose out is i can't collect earlier :frown::frown:
Then seller never lie mah. He already told you upfront will sell to you if got No other buyer.

You are his last choice...he already told you his intention.

If item is portable, next time you can consider arranging to collect on the way to/from work.

Of course, can also treat this as a positive learning experience. Next time buy leow tell the seller when and where you will collect, and for him not to sell to anyone else.
 

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was looking to buy something, thought the other party with similar interest would really consider sell it to me, though the seller did say want to sell to someone who can collect it earlier and say will consider sell me if really can't find another buyer

two days later i asked again for seller to reconsider selling to me and i won't ninja, end up tell me sell liao :frown::frown:

don't ask me buy what please
Don't really understand

You can't collect early but seller wants it off his hands?
Or you wanted a discount?

Seller also never promised to reserve for you
So seller have every right to sell it to someone else
 

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I buy things also got ghost-ed before. Best is don’t let it affect u and move on.
Ya
If you buy enough from carousell etc for long enough you learn to move on

Some things I see , I like but for some reason I don't message seller, maybe cos I already have a similar item etc.

By the time I message, it's gone.
Oh well
Just move on
Maybe next deal will be better, maybe not
 

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Then seller never lie mah. He already told you upfront will sell to you if got No other buyer.

You are his last choice...he already told you his intention.

If item is portable, next time you can consider arranging to collect on the way to/from work.

Of course, can also treat this as a positive learning experience. Next time buy leow tell the seller when and where you will collect, and for him not to sell to anyone else.
ikr

i just thought maybe we is got similar interest, the seller will be kinder and sell me

no choice, this one a bit complicated, i can't pay upfront or collect faster
 
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