8world...[HK]...34yo French woman drowned 7-mth old baby girl in a basin and walked to bedroom and hanged herself...

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Foreign wife might be alone most of the time while the expat husband is at work

No family support after giving birth is very depressing 1

RIP 🙏
 

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Newer generation folk are really more affected by mental illness, my ah ma live till 100, have 12kids, my ah gong was a selfish person who only care of himself (once threw away his child after birth cause it’s again a girl, according to my ah ma who doesn’t want to be place beside him after she pass.) worked all her life to take care of the family as a farmer, in her 70s she is lean and tan just like a field bangala.

I always said poor people do not have time to be depressed because they are busy making ends meet. Only rich people have depression because they have time ... Postnatal depression though is real.
 
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That's why it is a tradition in Chinese family to employ a nanny during confinement period. An experienced nanny can ensure well being of the new mother and the baby. The use of nanny may prevent this kind of tragedy from happening...
 

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Whenever there's a thread about cancer here, there will always be one person who will insist that drinking bittergourd juice can cure it.
Edmw has always been like that

There will be trolling here and there

There may be helpful or neutral replies, passing remarks etc

The trolls will make posts to take a dig at your predicament
 

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Very Sad RIP to little angel n mother.


She suffered from depression during her lifetime, and her condition relapsed after giving birth to her first child. She had to take antidepressants regularly.


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她生前患有抑郁症,生下首胎孩子后病情复发,需定期服用抗抑郁药物。
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Very Sad RIP to little angel n mother.


She suffered from depression during her lifetime, and her condition relapsed after giving birth to her first child. She had to take antidepressants regularly.


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她生前患有抑郁症,生下首胎孩子后病情复发,需定期服用抗抑郁药物。
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anti depressants not much use
i took them for a few years during my 20s
better rely on own body to produce various neurotransmitter for happiness emotional. well being
b vits working very well for me now, wifey sleeps better more energy

....human body cannot produce neurotransmitters for emotional well-being on its own without the essential cofactors provided by CERTAIN B VITAMINS

Serotonin is a KEY neurotransmitter for emotional well-being, happiness, and mood regulation, playing a crucial role in maintaining emotional stability and reducing feelings of sadness, anxiety, and irritability.

It is often referred to as the body’s natural “feel-good” chemical, and low levels are closely associated with depression, anxiety, and stress-related disorders.

Serotonin also helps regulate sleep, appetite, and pain perception, and its deficiency is linked to conditions such as obsessive-compulsive disorder OCD, panic disorder, and post-traumatic stress disorder PTSD.

While dopamine contributes to motivation and pleasure, serotonin is particularly VITAL for stabilizing mood and combating stress and depression"
 
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Foreign wife might be alone most of the time while the expat husband is at work

No family support after giving birth is very depressing 1

RIP 🙏
worse is the chinese Pinkerton Syndrome sometimes leaves these expat wives feeling depressed and betrayed, cos hubby go work will kenna a lot of chinese girls going wild for them
 

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That's why it is a tradition in Chinese family to employ a nanny during confinement period. An experienced nanny can ensure well being of the new mother and the baby. The use of nanny may prevent this kind of tragedy from happening...
Nanny are also human, I believe all traditional nanny do not have major in psychology or good in people relationships skills, they can be toxic as well … depend on luck.
 

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I always said poor people do not have time to be depressed because they are busy making ends meet. Only rich people have depression because they have time ... Postnatal depression is real.
got study shows top ppl of society have narcissistic sociopathic tendencies. they dontch have depression. go find churself.
 

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Why do we have so many negative news that have nothing to do with Singapore or Singaporeans here? What's the upside of posting such news? You want to increase number of copycats suicide here in Singapore??
 

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Nanny are also human, I believe all traditional nanny do not have major in psychology or good in people relationships skills, they can be toxic as well … depend on luck.
Of course, one needs to get a good and experienced nanny. Normally you get the nanny through recommendation from relatives and friends who had employed the nanny before.
 

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Why do we have so many negative news that have nothing to do with Singapore or Singaporeans here? What's the upside of posting such news? You want to increase number of copycats suicide here in Singapore??
noise and distraction lor. if chu have critical thinking, chu should see the bs behind all this.
 
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