Thanks for the reply.A few more questions...ya can choose but if the person is bad, has less options to choose from as compared to another person with much more merits.
1 If i dream of loved ones that have passed on,does it mean he/she is still lingering in this human world?
2 Is there another dimension for those already passed on and choose not to reincarnate where they can continue to "live" there as who they were as a human?
3 If one can feel spirits nearby or feel something off around them, can do what to protect ourselves against spirits with bad intentions?