Dinoboyboy
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I am experienced in being managed… 


Learn the traits of your team members - what are their strengths and weaknesses and any quirkswhat's the biggest challenge you faced when you just transited from individual contributor to a team manager?
what tips u would give to new managers?
any of u regretted the move (due to too much stress etc.)?
are you a project manager?
Depends on one's age.what's the biggest challenge you faced when you just transited from individual contributor to a team manager?
what tips u would give to new managers?
any of u regretted the move (due to too much stress etc.)?
most importantly don't public shame them in the office. I am sure you wun like it too if your managers scold you infront of everyone. Do 1-1 if you have to, you will get more respect.3)Correct them when they are wrong not scold them abit link to the first point.
When u ic u only manage yr workflow n own outputwhat's the biggest challenge you faced when you just transited from individual contributor to a team manager?
what tips u would give to new managers?
any of u regretted the move (due to too much stress etc.)?
I dont really practice this. I have a more collaborative approach where I will listen to feedback, take in the pros of different approaches and try to achieve a win-win situation. Not sure if I mainly deal with professionals, I seldom have the need to micro-manage and direct activities in great detail. Mostly, I have communicate the requirements, when to be done and off the go. If encounter issues, sit down discuss and figure a way out.Manage the people below you with a bit of Stockholm syndrome, be cold most of the time, but not cruel. That way, when you show a little friendliness, even something as small as a smile, they’ll see it as a gracious gift. Keeps them motivated, weirdly enough.
project managers can be individual contributor. except that need alot of time to communicate with cross functional teams. Thats what it is in my company. usually there is a program director that manages all the PMs.are you a project manager?
it will be worst if there are specific individuals that spread their toxicity affecting the whole team negatively. I never had such people in my team, but have met individuals who are like that.Learn the traits of your team members - what are their strengths and weaknesses and any quirks
An effective manager is one who can motivate each member and excel together as a team
Of course, there will be times when we all end up with a team member who doesn't pull his or her own weight; but that's not the worst - the worst is sometimes these members don't want to listen to advice
Then we spend most of our time "managing" these fellas![]()
These team members are like a cancer - need to cut earlyit will be worst if there are specific individuals that spread their toxicity affecting the whole team negatively. I never had such people in my team, but have met individuals who are like that.
I experienced in shi t clearing … your one betterer than a mahI am experienced in being managed…![]()
sounds like you are lucky to be working with a good team lead, can learn alot of the good and correct thingsThese are the pointers I learn from my manager. She leads a team of about 15 people.
She's very good at her job and many people respect her way of managing tasks and people.
Money aside, she and higher ups allowed me work from home for an extended period of time when my dad almost died and also for his major surgery.
hate these kind of team mate, ownself don't want do work still want to make others follow the toxic ways so it makes the toxic way look like a norm and the ones truly doing work end up stick out like a sore thumb, but I also learnt no point trying to figure out such nonsense people, end up everyone will see the real 老鼠屎 mouse shiet is whoThese team members are like a cancer - need to cut early
But being Asians, many are too polite to voice out to the top - end up getting whole team infected![]()

I think the PD manage PMs, PM manages team members is quite common, that why PMs suffer if PD or team members got energy can play toxic games and all that shiet but the real things that matter, they die die don't focus and do properlyproject managers can be individual contributor. except that need alot of time to communicate with cross functional teams. Thats what it is in my company. usually there is a program director that manages all the PMs.
