Normally, I will strive to do what is right and good. Therefore, I avoid attacking first because someone who attacks without provocation is always in the wrong. If I suspect others intend to attack me, I will take necessary defensive measures, but I will not initiate the attack. Technically, if the other party hasn't attacked, they haven't done anything wrong...yet.
But but, if in the case they choose to attack me, then too bad laa..they will face the consequences lo. I will do everything necessary to restore myself to my original state. Original state not just refer to my safety and interests, but also my mood. Meaning if my original mood is 'X' and your attack causes it to drop to 'Y', then too bad...I will retaliate until my mood fweels song and returns back to 'X'. So, best is don't go ard disiao or provoke others la. If everyone adopt the mindset of 人不犯我 我不犯人, then conflict likely won't happen one mah