Are we just delusional and kidding ourselves?

[xcodes]

Agreed! Stay single. Live free! Getting into a r/s is like stepping into a gilded cage. Looks good but u no longer can do what you please. Married with kids - your life revolves around spouse and kids. You don't have a life it belongs to them!

100% agree ... saw my friend and my own dad suffering from this ...

 

[Milodrink]

Why bother going out to meet women if I know high chance it’s gonna fail/ not work out? Waste my time only

I might as well focus on myself first, earn a lot of money liao then go out to meet women. At least I stand a higher chance then. No money no women will even bother to get to know me better to discover my other attributes

Females are different. They just need to look decent, got money or not nvm.
If I’m a female, I will gladly go out every weekend to meet ppl/ guys liao. Who cares if I got money or not if I’m a female.

In before female go out meeting many Bbfa despo for mating even after one or few meals tgt.

 

[Milodrink]

I feel that the younger ones and just married or have kids seems happy. But as they aged and have more commitment, they might feel actually single not bad.

Guess grass always greener on another side

 

[SkyNinja]

People here contented with $20k salary and every month change gf

 

[Milodrink]

not delusional la, not to that extent of a negative connotation

relationship need maintenance and whole lot of attention to each other one,

if you are someone who really like to focus on yourself, earn money and own hobby, even if the heavens send you a girlfriend who like you at the onset will also eventually leave you because your life is all about you,

you cannot fake the maintenance and the provision of attention your entire life one, you can act for a year or maybe 2 but will gradually sink back to your true personality

Most are selfish as human nature.

Even more so in 1st world country, and many other countries of various level.