Awake Now, Stress Abt Work

[firebrand83]

200% Agreed ... a supportive wife is truly important. You don't want to come home to your own home and your wife starts giving you faces and remarks like, "Can't hold a job or can't manage your own stress at work blah blah." All kinds of sh! t! That's tonnes more stress and a living hell man! Lucky, my wife is understanding and supportive, and of course, with some funds that last for 12 months of my monthly expenditure. And I managed to secure my current job which offered better pay/bonus less fancy pantry after 3 months of searching

3 months is very fast, what line do you do

 

[firsttimebuyer]

200% Agreed ... a supportive wife is truly important. You don't want to come home to your own home and your wife starts giving you faces and remarks like, "Can't hold a job or can't manage your own stress at work blah blah." All kinds of sh! t! That's tonnes more stress and a living hell man! Lucky, my wife is understanding and supportive, and of course, with some funds that last for 12 months of my monthly expenditure. And I managed to secure my current job which offered better pay/bonus less fancy pantry after 3 months of searching

Its good your wife is understanding. I had voiced out my work stress to my wife but after work, she will try to provoke me by saying hurtful remarks meant to bait me into responding. The fights usually escalate after that. Last night, I practised silence. I watched YouTube videos on dealing with an arguementative wife and many said just keep quiet and not responding. It worked but not sure how long this can last

 

[happyman800]

3 months is very fast, what line do you do

Good question. I have been in the same industry for over 20 years, starting as a junior IT on-site engineer and progressing to IT HOD and currently IT Infra Mgr for an MNC.

 

[happyman800]

Its good your wife is understanding. I had voiced out my work stress to my wife but after work, she will try to provoke me by saying hurtful remarks meant to bait me into responding. The fights usually escalate after that. Last night, I practised silence. I watched YouTube videos on dealing with an arguementative wife and many said just keep quiet and not responding. It worked but not sure how long this can last

Yes, because my wife has been in the same shoes before and pushed to a corner by her ex-manager. And she resigned voluntarily

 

[GundamG]

Its good your wife is understanding. I had voiced out my work stress to my wife but after work, she will try to provoke me by saying hurtful remarks meant to bait me into responding. The fights usually escalate after that. Last night, I practised silence. I watched YouTube videos on dealing with an arguementative wife and many said just keep quiet and not responding. It worked but not sure how long this can last

take care bro.

 

[firebrand83]

Its good your wife is understanding. I had voiced out my work stress to my wife but after work, she will try to provoke me by saying hurtful remarks meant to bait me into responding. The fights usually escalate after that. Last night, I practised silence. I watched YouTube videos on dealing with an arguementative wife and many said just keep quiet and not responding. It worked but not sure how long this can last

Not good signs man, take care