For your own sake, lose this kind of mindset.
Be responsible in planning for your own retirement, don't be a burden to anyone.
I sense deep resentment from you.
You're similar to my colleagues.
In every drinking session, without fail, they would complain about their kids, spouses and how their lives are ruined.
The next day...hey
@d9_lives, you don't understand that kids are bundle of joy, you'll regret it.
Lolz...no! I love my money, freedom, sleep and 4-6 overseas trips.
Obviously, it's crabs in a bucket, sinkies pawn sinkies, misery loves company or whatever sorry assess mentality you can name it.