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sohguanh

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For your own sake, lose this kind of mindset.
Be responsible in planning for your own retirement, don't be a burden to anyone.

I sense deep resentment from you.

You're similar to my colleagues.
In every drinking session, without fail, they would complain about their kids, spouses and how their lives are ruined.
The next day...hey @d9_lives, you don't understand that kids are bundle of joy, you'll regret it.

Lolz...no! I love my money, freedom, sleep and 4-6 overseas trips.

Obviously, it's crabs in a bucket, sinkies pawn sinkies, misery loves company or whatever sorry assess mentality you can name it.
Some wise man teach the mantra Life Is Suffering. Hence he sought the way to attain Nirvana. So if you interpret that as deep resentment by all means. Ppl way before I was born has experienced the same way and finally gained enlightenment.
 

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Some wise man teach the mantra Life Is Suffering. Hence he sought the way to attain Nirvana. So if you interpret that as deep resentment by all means. Ppl way before I was born has experienced the same way and finally gained enlightenment.
I see...but I am not sure if I understand what you mean.
I, too, have gained enlightenment that we have choices and I choose not to suffer in this life.
Good luck with your retirement man.
 

sohguanh

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I see...but I am not sure if I understand what you mean.
I, too, have gained enlightenment that we have choices and I choose not to suffer in this life.
Good luck with your retirement man.
Life is suffering hence to attain Nirvana is to gain enlightenment. You obviously do not subscribe to this school of thought which is perfectly ok. So your enlightenment is not to suffer in life the other opposite way. Good luck with your retirement man.
 

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Some wise man teach the mantra Life Is Suffering. Hence he sought the way to attain Nirvana. So if you interpret that as deep resentment by all means. Ppl way before I was born has experienced the same way and finally gained enlightenment.
What rubbish is mantra Life is Suffering? Nirvana still need to eat, pangsai and koon.
 

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Not wrong becuz when they young they feed the children. Now children can earn monies no need feed back? Or classic reason you owe children a living for bringing them into this world?

For those run road parents no feed children when they young I can understand children now grown up don't feed back.

So end of day don't have children they are the source of misery and unhappiness for both parties. Anthrax sings Misery loves company and I am your no.1 fan... Yeah I listen heavy metal then hard rock then soft rock becuz it sings out my feeling.
Do what you think and leave your spouse and children and all your assets and follow Buddha for own happiness.
 
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