Some gambling, some medical expenses, others uncontrolled spending due to behavioral disorders. Yet others being too generous with others.
What is your opinion about these cases? Do you have a suggestion to forum members on how not to be heavily indebted?
Self discipline, delay/omit gratification and learn more about financial literacy. The Millionaire Next Door is a good book to read.
Personally I have zero debt. Much of my frugal ways are due to upbringing so I value the value of every single dollar. My assets are hoarded in such a manner so that one day when I am old I will check myself in to a nursing home without troubling family members.
For those who are sincerely hoping to clear debts you must have true conviction and an extreme lifestyle adjustment. Here are some suggestions.
Either you increase other streams of income or you cut back on all non essential and life threatening spending.
1) High maintenance girlfriend/ mistress
2) Overseas trips
3) Cable/Broadand internet
4) Use prepaid SIM
5) Sell away depreciating assets such as car (if any)
6) Cook at home once a day
7) Terminate your credit cards
8) Set a frugal monthly budget and only withdraw from this ATM card only when required.
9) Disassociate yourself from free spending friends/relatives.
Have an exclusive bank account strictly for debt repayment. Dump your income (minus monthly expenses) into this account and do not touch it other than for debt repayment.
Do it right one time because you will fail if you do it half hearted. The sooner you clear your debt the faster you lead a normal lifestyle. After back on track plan for financial freedom if you can. Live each day as if a crisis is going to happen tomorrow so you will not be complacent and go back to your old ways.