Asking about relationship related questions:
For single, hoping to meet someone. There are 2 type of questions that one can ask.
1. When will the 有缘人 appear?
for 1. can use sheng bei to ask.
a. Ask GYM or God of the temple when it will appear.
b. If it will appear between June to Dec 2024, please give you 1 sheng bei.
- if you gotten 1 sheng bei or no sheng bei, proceed to to c.
c. if it will appear between Jan to June 2025, please give you 1 sheng bei.
- if you gotten 1 sheng bei or no sheng bei, proceed to to d.
d. if it will appear between july to Dec 2025, please give you 1 sheng bei.
- if you gotten 1 sheng bei or no sheng bei, proceed to to e.
e. if it will appear between Jan 2026 to June 2026, please give you 1 sheng bei.
By now you should have the answer. if you gotten a sheng bei for the period asked like between Jan to June 2025 and no sheng bei for the other period you asked, it mean you got very high chance of meeting the person between Jan to June 2025.
You could also received answers of meeting someone in 2 periods too. So during that period, you need to increase your social activities like meeting more people like new friends or old friends that you did not contact for sometime. Please do not do nothing and expect the 有缘人to come find you, chances of it appearing out of no where is low.
in event, all the periods (usually we asked for 2 years) do not have sheng bei, you have to ask GYM or the Temple god to advice what went wrong or something that you need take note of change ? as within 2 years for sure, there will be some 缘分 appearing. So you take the lot tin and start drawing lots (Follow draw lots SOP).
For attached couple, from my experiences, usually people like to ask the following:
i. if he or she is the one i will married or settle down with (正缘)?
ii. What to do to improve the relationship (usually couple met with issues)
i. If you have been together with your bf/gf for more than 6 months or 1 year, usually wont advise to ask such question because both already put in effort into the relationship and if want to end the relationship due to this, it would be hard for his/her partner to swallow if nothing bad has happened between both of you (like relationship is stable etc)
One can ask GYM or the temple god, if the person is my 正缘。
- Follow the ask question using sheng bei SOP
- Inform GYM or god that currently you are in a relationship with so and so (Say the partner name and DOB)
- Ask if so and so (your partner) is your 正缘? if yes give you 1 sheng bei.
So what if you are not suitable to ask if your partner is your 正缘? (Together for quite sometime like more than 1 year kind).
if both have the intention to move to next stage like getting married. One can ask GYM or the temple God, in current relationship, what to take note or have to change to ensure the relationship would be ok/smooth esp after marriage.
This question have to draw lot so need to follow the draw lot SOP.
For married couples, the most common questions received was:
- Should i divorce with my wife or husband?
For such question, usually GYM or temple God likely wont answer you directly (Unless special circumstances which is very rare).
One has to decide if you want to save the marriage or dont want to save the marriage ?
If one do not want to save the marriage, can no need to ask at all.
If one wish to save the marriage, can ask for advice on how to go about saving it via drawing lots.
For such question, if you need more info do feel free to DM me.