[Depressed] Darkest day now..

[Ronin881]

 

[Coffeelix]

Good morning everybody
Today is Wednesday. More than 2 weeks after the wake .

I am coping half well .
Still crying .

Eagerly waiting for this weekend so I can go temple to pray respect to my wife again..

U are doing great …
Keep working to improve on your “depression”…
U are your own master, don’t let depression takes control …
Find something new to do / a new hobby … keep fish ?
Is ok to tears but not ok to think negatively …

 

[Lchlch]

U are doing great …
Keep working to improve on your “depression”…
U are your own master, don’t let depression takes control …
Find something new to do / a new hobby … keep fish ?
Is ok to tears but not ok to think negatively …

Tgks bro.
I am slowly getting on my feet.
Not fully recovered from grief.
Yes...I sometimes not tear, just a very heavy heart inside me. The inhale is like choking...but after that, back to normal.

 

[Lchlch]

I know what you mean.

You can try hiking if you want to have some alone time but don't need to be at home.

Lower peirce reservoir, thomson nature park, windsor nature park and even rail corridor are good for beginners. They usually last around 3 to 5km distance at best.

Once you feel that you want to include your kids in the hike, you can choose to do so with them as well.

Makan places arh? I'm not sure what's ur taste palette like but I'm mostly a hawker person. Just try out a few hawker that you think you might be interested in and find one that resonates to you. Sometimes being in an noisy environment with your earphones doing your own thing is actually a good thing too.

And I'll also recommend you to give cat cafes a try. You don't have to pet the cats but I feel that it can be therapeutic.

Sometimes being alone doesn't mean you need to be truly alone. If you get what I mean.

Thanks bro for your advise.
Most of the path you mentioned I went thru every weekend.
My kids wont follow me.
They have their own program.
Thats left me alone.

Where is cat cafe?
is it expensive?

 

[The_Davis]

How are you coping now? Everyday raining and gloomy

 

[Lchlch]

How are you coping now? Everyday raining and gloomy

hello bro, still okay.
coping bit by bit, baby steps.
Able to move on but still struggling.
not much cry but only heart pain and occassionally sudden watery tears thats all.

 

[Yuripa]

Thanks bro for your advise.
Most of the path you mentioned I went thru every weekend.
My kids wont follow me.
They have their own program.
Thats left me alone.

Where is cat cafe?
is it expensive?

Good afternoon TS!!

https://www.sassymamasg.com/play-cat-cafe-singapore/

I think it starts from $12 onwards.

It's like hawker centre, gotta try 1 that suits ur needs.

So I can't really recommend you a correct one.

Some people go cat cafe to play with cats, some go just to chill and look at cats.

I won't be able to tell you what to do or what sort of experience to feel but you will have figure out your niche.

You can also try dog cafe if you refer dogs instead but no harm starting with cats first.

Food for thought - Just bcoz they have their own program, it doesn't mean you guys can't create a new program together

 

[qhong61]

Good afternoon TS!!

https://www.sassymamasg.com/play-cat-cafe-singapore/

I think it starts from $12 onwards.

It's like hawker centre, gotta try 1 that suits ur needs.

So I can't really recommend you a correct one.

Some people go cat cafe to play with cats, some go just to chill and look at cats.

I won't be able to tell you what to do or what sort of experience to feel but you will have figure out your niche.

You can also try dog cafe if you refer dogs instead but no harm starting with cats first.

Food for thought - Just bcoz they have their own program, it doesn't mean you guys can't create a new program together

Just leave him alone.

 

[harryhuat]

Hi TS, hope you are doing well. It's normal to feel sad, but remember you got many others things to hold on. Try getting a pet or maybe a animals cafe like they suggested.

 

[doratch]

hello bro, still okay.
coping bit by bit, baby steps.
Able to move on but still struggling.
not much cry but only heart pain and occassionally sudden watery tears thats all.

TS, take your time to "heal". No rush.
When you feel like crying, just cry. No need to hide or watsoever. If your children saw you crying, its ok deh. Dun need to hide from them unless you feel paiseh.

 

[Money no have]

Bro, My Deepest Condolences.

firstly l want to stress that what I am about to say, maybe abit inappropriate however I want to assure you that is not my intention.

I would like to ask you, have you tried to buy 4d, maybe, just maybe may tio some to cover fee or for children education.

some people may say, i dont care about money
BUT the way I see it is it is more a statement of a last act of love if indeed you really tio.

 

[buttbERry]

hope ts is better now

 

[Money no have]

one more thing bro,
I never followed the pages , but it seems you have not disclosed the cause of death.

please keep it that way, treasure it, protect it guard it the secret.

there are many kaypo , busy bodies and evils people that will say eh why so sip sip ( secretive). Eh sharing is caring bro.

NONSENSE!

I was sip sip before and i fell for their manipulation, and then they used it against me.

Really evil, so now Im back to sip sip and I implore everyone to not be so “open “ and announce everything to the world!

no need to showhand all your deck really!

 

[Lchlch]

Bro, My Deepest Condolences.

firstly l want to stress that what I am about to say, maybe abit inappropriate however I want to assure you that is not my intention.

I would like to ask you, have you tried to buy 4d, maybe, just maybe may tio some to cover fee or for children education.

some people may say, i dont care about money
BUT the way I see it is it is more a statement of a last act of love if indeed you really tio.

Only recently I bought 4d for the kms chanting..

 

[Lchlch]

hope ts is better now

Slowly.....but can see progress.
But at times, fall into grief again

 

[Lchlch]

one more thing bro,
I never followed the pages , but it seems you have not disclosed the cause of death.

please keep it that way, treasure it, protect it guard it the secret.

there are many kaypo , busy bodies and evils people that will say eh why so sip sip ( secretive). Eh sharing is caring bro.

NONSENSE!

I was sip sip before and i fell for their manipulation, and then they used it against me.

Really evil, so now Im back to sip sip and I implore everyone to not be so “open “ and announce everything to the world!

no need to showhand all your deck really!

Thks bro.
I am aware of this.

 

[Coffeelix]

Slowly.....but can see progress.
But at times, fall into grief again

Good morning bro…
Sending lots of n prayers your way…

 

[Lchlch]

Good morning bro…
Sending lots of n prayers your way…

Good morning bro.
Stages of headaches n pain...

 

[Coffeelix]

Good morning bro.
Stages of headaches n pain...

Take panadol for headache… if it persists, go seek medical attention asap.
Take care.

 

[buttbERry]

Slowly.....but can see progress.
But at times, fall into grief again

please hang on...